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Xena said: 

Don't ever ask me if I'm cheating.

The very (hypothetical) fact that I'm having sex with somebody at all is one of the highest compliments I can pay them.

It's extremely rare that I get the urge to do so.

I'm very easily disgusted and prone to changing my mind.

They're not mind readers though, and you sound pretty secretive. If they haven't known you for very long then how are they meant to know the severity and context of lines three and four? 

What if they legitimately are having an insecure moment, rather than that being who they are? I'm sure you'd understand it being a moment, plus possessiveness can come from more than just a domineering personality. A lot of it is conditioned into us by culture as well as being ingrained enough within the vast majority of people to reinforce it. 

And yeah, I hate people.

I've had sex 5 times in the last 20 years, and ditched every one of them within a few days at the slightest sign of douchebaggery.

You make it sound like a fear of commitment, if not a general insecurity over people knowing enough about you to potentially judge you once you've caught enough feelings to take it more personally. 

There really is something weirdly piercing about someone intimate saying the same thing you wouldn't bat an eye at a stranger saying. 

I don't need to cheat.

If I want more sex, I will simply say so.

If partner is up for it, great.

If not, then I'm done.

You make it sound... transactional. 

That tends to be red flags for me when it comes to connection and empathy, but in your case (unlike Spatial) rather than a lack of empathy it sounds more like not wanting to be bothered with a sensitivity. 

Precisely.

I'm not very sensitive to those places where sex and emotion overlap.

I tend to see those things as mutually exclusive.

Penises are disgusting things.

Sex is like chewing.

It often leads to smthg wonderful, but if I think too hard on what's going on inside there, I start to feel a bit pukey lol

And yes, when a guy causes me to harden my heart against him, the relationship will often become transactional until I can scrape him off without damaging myself or my world in the process. I don't have any personal experience with stalkers, but I'm well aware that they're out there. So I'm picky about safe breakups.

I've even relocated after ghosting a guy, cruel as that sounds.

Better him than me.

I am not bothering reading the last 2 pages, but for the others

Xena you are a twat

If i was her friend Id consider not being her friend anymore, asking me to stand in the way of their relationship.

And she doesn't trust her BF to tell him the truth, this is a fact.

If there is no trust, then its an issue for a deeper relationship.

if she was not affected as you claimed and didn't need her BF, then she could not keep it a secret and not tell him about it and if he finds out, she can be casual about it.

She intentionally went out of her way and involved a mutual friend to keep a secret.

The truth is that she does not trust her BF and this is a cause for alarm in general, which is why the OP is distressed. Either she thinks he will be overprotective or that he can't be compassionate or some other stranger motive. There is NO reason to keep this a secret if you are secure.

Xena said: 

Precisely.

I'm not very sensitive to those places where sex and emotion overlap.

I tend to see those things as mutually exclusive.

 

Penises are disgusting things.

Sex is like chewing.

It often leads to smthg wonderful, but if I think too hard on what's going on inside there, I start to feel a bit pukey lol

 

 

And yes, when a guy causes me to harden my heart against him, the relationship will often become transactional until I can scrape him off without damaging myself or my world in the process. I don't have any personal experience with stalkers, but I'm well aware that they're out there. So I'm picky about safe breakups.

I've even relocated after ghosting a guy, cruel as that sounds.

Better him than me.

Your pathological disposition towards sex stems from a subconscious attempt to separate the common elements found in our biology. Sex is nothing more than chewing cum with your pussy, and digestion is just as beautiful as giving birth. If only you got your head our your ass (pun intended) you'd not act like such a petulant prepubescent child. 

Xadem said: 

Xena said: 

Precisely.

I'm not very sensitive to those places where sex and emotion overlap.

I tend to see those things as mutually exclusive.

 

Penises are disgusting things.

Sex is like chewing.

It often leads to smthg wonderful, but if I think too hard on what's going on inside there, I start to feel a bit pukey lol

 

 

And yes, when a guy causes me to harden my heart against him, the relationship will often become transactional until I can scrape him off without damaging myself or my world in the process. I don't have any personal experience with stalkers, but I'm well aware that they're out there. So I'm picky about safe breakups.

I've even relocated after ghosting a guy, cruel as that sounds.

Better him than me.

Your pathological disposition towards sex stems from a subconscious attempt to separate the common elements found in our biology. Sex is nothing more than chewing cum with your pussy, and digestion is just as beautiful as giving birth. 

 

 Exactly.

Have you ever seen a live birth?

Just ew.

Not sure how being grossed out by it is proof that I'm pathological or that I have my head up my ass.

I double dawg dare you to watch a vid of a live birth. A stranger is ok, but somebody you know, like your mom would be better.

Then put a full size mirror behind you and strip naked.

Put a small umbrella up your cornhole and open it.

Then put a 5lb bowling ball up there with it.

See how long you can hold it before you let it fall out with your last meal and w/e shredded flesh wants to come with.

At least, that's what I hear it's like.

 Why would I want any of that with somebody I don't love?

Or even with somebody I do love?

Just ew.

Good said: 

I am not bothering reading the last 2 pages, but for the others

Xena you are a twat

lol shaddup  xP

If i was her friend Id consider not being her friend anymore, asking me to stand in the way of their relationship.

srsly? 

And she doesn't trust her BF to tell him the truth, this is a fact.

If there is no trust, then its an issue for a deeper relationship.

if she was not affected as you claimed and didn't need her BF, then she could not keep it a secret and not tell him about it and if he finds out, she can be casual about it.

She intentionally went out of her way and involved a mutual friend to keep a secret.

The truth is that she does not trust her BF and this is a cause for alarm in general, which is why the OP is distressed. Either she thinks he will be overprotective or that he can't be compassionate or some other stranger motive. There is NO reason to keep this a secret if you are secure.

 Yeah probably.

But he is overbearing and annoying, like I said on page one.

I wouldn't trust him, either.

Maybe because of how you've responded in the past has her wary or because it's a deserted area that y'all like that she would rather not ruin for you. Who knows. Tell her you know so she knows not to trust your mutual friend again.

Lenalee said: 

Maybe because of how you've responded in the past has her wary or because it's a deserted area that y'all like that she would rather not ruin for you. Who knows. Tell her you know so she knows not to trust your mutual friend again.

 Just wanted to say I don't trust you Lena. You'll try to frame me or something dirty.

Turncoat said: 

Xena said: 

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Outro said: 

Anyway, she and the friend saw something traumatic. Someone had gassed themselves in their car in the parking lot.

How'd that happen? 

 Pfft. It happens all the time.

I have never seen this happen in a parking lot, and that's not from a lack of parking lot exposure in my lifetime. 

Weird statement. I've never seen someone get hit by a truck, yet I know it happens. And I've seen a lot of trucks, and a lot of pedestrians near trucks.

If I were to panel a survey, I'd wager a high majority have never seen this happen. This more often than not happens in their garage or at least by their home right? 

Lots of people don't want their families to find them. Or he was living in his car. Not actually unusual for people to kill themselves in secluded, wooded areas.

I enjoy how later on in this thread you say that it sounds like its something from a movie - and yet gassing themselves in a garage is arguably the movie route. 

Lenalee said: 

Maybe because of how you've responded in the past has her wary or because it's a deserted area that y'all like that she would rather not ruin for you. Who knows. Tell her you know so she knows not to trust your mutual friend again.

I told her I know today and she didn't seem too annoyed at the friend, but also didn't want to talk about it.

I'm assuming this means the relationship is more superficial than I thought, which is lame.

Xena said: 

But he is overbearing and annoying, like I said on page one.

I wouldn't trust him, either.

 No ones asking you to trust me.