I've confronted Emily on her episodes time and time again, sometimes in DM's I'd ask her to cool it, other times I would choke her out, she'd attack me for a day, then next day it never happened. In her last days she asked if I she could live with me and as she left I'm the one she respected, cause I don't enable her by approving of her bullshit like the others here.
Ohhhh...! So when she flipped out on me when I disagreed about behavior, and she was throwing those accusations of the content of our DMs -- including "talking about living together" -- she was mistaking me for you.
She randomly asked me once.
From what I gather some type of romance was brewing between you and Emily, then you somehow blew it. I think it had to do with you changing your mind.
It was also a mistake for you to ask Emily if she wanted to flirt, or if it's okay if you and her flirt. Despite how the world is today we simply cannot do that with women, it'll be off putting, kinda like asking them if they like you. I believe she said you were creepy for doing that.
You should've been harder with her. Being Mr. Nice guy, then being flirty will get you disrespected by someone like Emily. She's like a regular woman but amplified, so not regular, if that makes sense.