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Lenalee said: 

I read enough to know that you completely unhinged and think that changing the marker on a paper that could somehow now prove that you're a woman and that she's always been dating a woman is weird fuckin abusive Predator behavior.

Your mom is a weird abusive predator.

Solid burn bro but you'll never be a woman. Fuuck

No means no.

Nobody said no. You're seriously so retarded.

She isn't obligated to participate in your delusion, you're divorced. There is no marriage to save and you're not a woman or a lesbian.

last edit on 10/11/2022 7:18:37 PM
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Not sure what you mean here.

Overall love interests tend to come to me and, if there's more than one, I choose between them. If no one is into me for the moment I mostly work on throwing myself out there to see who bites while otherwise improving myself for myself so that the confidence is that much more apparent. 


People can smell desperation, so a good strat is to stop being desperate. Let it happen on it's own while focusing on being present in enough things to be available to whoever might be interested.

You're giving me relationship advice to be with someone I've been with for over 8 years, and you're going to do that by giving e-advice that is circulated on every bro forum for teenagers who want to approach someone for the first time?

No, the above was me trying to answer your question which was about me. I then went on to say what works for me since it seemed related: 


Explain to me how you can both not want to date women and also date women, voluntarily, at the same time.


 

Her statements about you aren't very flattering.

Assuming you're meaning Spatial, mine haven't really been either, shit happens. 

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last edit on 10/11/2022 9:43:44 PM
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Lenalee said: 
Solid burn bro but you'll never be a woman. Fuuck

She isn't obligated to participate in your delusion, you're divorced. There is no marriage to save and you're not a woman or a lesbian.

I find it hilarious how neither of you is realizing that I'm a woman.

 

Assuming you're meaning Spatial, mine haven't really been either, shit happens.

Yours havent been that bad.

 

Honestly I feel a bit lost. I think I made a mistake. Because of my tourettes, I think my dating game is also not that big. Because I don't like men, It's narrowed down even further, also I'm getting old.

But I finally found out why women say that they feel uneasy when men look at them with lust. I normally don't really feel like being girlish but today I decided to wear a dress and some make-up, and honestly I think quite a few men were checking me out. I noticed their gaze and they just looked away. Or maybe I'm just paying more attention because I was kind of curious to see what people's reactions were.

Anyway, I haven't really chatted with my wife. I think I might try tinder or something on the side.

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Of course you'd think TC isn't as bad as me.

He'll refer to you as a female on demand no problem.

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Of course you'd think TC isn't as bad as me.

Definitely a different take than our local Lady Leggasus had a few months ago. 

He'll refer to you as a female on demand no problem.

It's really not that hard to add or subtract an extra letter, compared to the paragraphs it might otherwise take to insist upon them the label they don't want. 

It's also a practice in tolerance, even if Legga's being a bad actor over this. There are people who really need to be seen by others as the other label to feel more comfortable, and I don't see it as stretching one's tolerance too thin to go along with it if they are otherwise tolerant of accidental mislabeling from time to time. 

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last edit on 10/13/2022 6:50:28 PM
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There are people who really need to be seen by others as the other label to feel more comfortable, and I don't see it as stretching one's tolerance too thin to go along with it if they are otherwise tolerant of accidental mislabeling from time to time.

Bingo.

I don't see why Spatial makes such a big deal about this. It's not like everyone isn't tolerating her behavior.

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I'm a man of truth though. I don't like false, and it gets worse when people forcefully try to change my mind while I find them ridiculous.

Transgender is counterfeit and awkward to me. Some of it makes me laugh, like when a fruity man sides with women and calls for the straight man's downfall, lol.

 

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Dove said: 

I'm a man of truth though. I don't like false, and it gets worse when people forcefully try to change my mind while I find them ridiculous.

Right, you don't even believe in personal truth beyond the spectrum of disorder to throw people off from an abnormally large common ground that is practically Noospheric, like a collective consciousness that people can tap into that allows for growth through applying manifestations upon this grander scheme. 

I still don't understand how you can think so many people are on the same page, and that those who aren't must be delusional. I cannot relate to the idea of a shared consciousness beyond how we respond similarly towards the same symbols and stimulus. 

Transgender is counterfeit and awkward to me. Some of it makes me laugh, like when a fruity man sides with women and calls for the straight man's downfall, lol.

It's a byproduct of peer modeling based on T vs E balances sorting people into groups. Following that you see gender values as a byproduct of society go against the grain for enough people over how it is not a one size fits all model, and over how rigidly said society handles gender you see these people willing to try to change it in order to fit into the construct society has made. The idea that 'men are supposed to be this way and women are supposed to be that way' is largely regressive when you take into account how many people do not fit these molds while still being functional members of society. 

If society didn't treat gender like it was such a big, divisive thing, you'd see more people not feeling shamed into changing their gender. If it was okay for boys to be like girls and girls to be like boys then there'd be that much less reason for people to go through drastic measures. 

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Personal Truth is the way of delusion. The truth is absolute and is never a personal thing.

We build rockets and send spacecraft to space based on mathematics. What's true holds the same with or without out our take. To make anything that works, true and false must be static.

One's belief doesn't determine the truth, nor will what they can or cannot prove.

The term "Personal Truth" is a fantasy often used as an excuse for seeking acceptions.

last edit on 10/14/2022 4:13:15 PM
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Dove said: 

Personal Truth is the way of delusion. The truth is absolute and is never a personal thing.

Like for example what is the prettiest color in the Universe? Is there an absolute metric we can use to determine the truth of that?

We build rockets and send spacecraft to space based on mathematics. What's true holds the same with or without out our take. To make anything that works, true and false must be static.

You will learn one day that there is no such thing as absolute truth. Everything depends on the metric you use to determine that truth.

One's belief doesn't determine the truth, nor will what they can or cannot prove.

The term "Personal Truth" is a fantasy often used as an excuse for seeking acceptions.

Well how would you disentangle "personal truth" from "absolute truth"?

Say, I claimed that the prettiest color was blue, and you said it was green. Who is right?

You'll find that your elementary school level logic isn't going to help you there.

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