At this point she's gone as far as to log into his Discord and pretend to be him confessing to get him in trouble.
If it's a real problem with raping and beating on the regular, or if it's her not understanding something and taking it to this extreme, both outcomes would have me ready for divorce. Even before the raping/beating this shit's been a toxic story, and being separated is the most likely path towards Harm Reduction.
Neither of them seem happy.Post proof??
It's not my responsibility to prove his personal life to you if he wishes to keep it private. While I may be meddling I seldom leak things, at this point having just tried to say enough to show there's more than one story while planting my feet enough to have it not be swept under the rug from hers being so prolific with a duration behind it. It's also not hard to be biased after meeting them IRL when only one of them is coherent while the other one is literally out of control and yelling at the top of her lungs in public.
The only real "proof" I have since Delora reading his convo with me could grant her just as much room to quote it as it having been her the entire time is BR's alias going back and forth between saying if it is or isn't him while one of them makes claims the other one doesn't believe later. This could just as easily be BR pretending it was her to avoid the proof of said confession but looking over the chat again has a lot of her hints being dropped in it, to such a point I started calling her out on it the second time she tried. If we're to believe past stories from them too then clearly they're "Just Trolling lolol, we don't really know their lives they just fuck with us for fun".
I have text of the BR account claiming back-to-back to not be Delora and then that it was Delora, that's what I'm working with now.
You don't have solid proof just a hunch that it could be her.
If it's br saying that he did something you're still as likely to say it must be her. You have a history of downplaying abuse when it's people you like. This wouldn't be a surprising take from you.
He outright said it twice and then she'd log on to say "Actually that was me", then he logs on again like "No it's not wtf!". She did it a minimum of two times and has only stopped from him taking the steps to log out of his account with a stronger password before handing it to her.
My advice is they need divorce regardless of the rape/beating scenario, as regardless of if it's true or false it's shitty enough for one of them that they shouldn't have to stick through it.
I also am prone to looking at the less popular view to see if it holds water, rather than just boarding the drama llama's bandwagon. There's always more than one side to a story and it pays to see what the unpopular perspective is as well before forming conclusions.
Deloras view isn't popular it's just concerning, you're taking BRs view because he's your friend and you've convinced yourself he's the only victim. Your argument about him taking money that was already meant to be bought for the shrooms doesn't even hold well. Its still stealing money from his wife and it's still him being a greedy little fuck concerned only about what it could give him.
"I will admit that I did use 40$ to get shrooms. I thought the purported insights would make it worth it. It sure was a good experience and there were insights, but I do wish I didn't do it now because the conflict since then has not been worth it. I probably should have at least got her permission to get them even if I was gonna take them alone"
Even here he down plays it and refuses to call it stealing. He refused to acknowledge that he greedily took something for himself that was supposed to be an experience for both of them.
