Philippians 3:9
9 And be found in him, not having mine own righteousness, which is of the law, but that which is through the faith of Christ, the righteousness which is of God by faith:
2 Corinthians 5:21
21 For he hath made him to be sin for us, who knew no sin; that we might be made the righteousness of God in him.
basically anything pure and holy and good, and wisdom I always ask Jesus for, because I do not trust in my own self-perceived ownership of any if these
Galatians 5:22-23
22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith,
23 Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law.
Philippians 4:8
8 Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.
I didn't mean to attack you I just got excited, because I used to be confused on this too and on feeling like I wasn't "good enough" to be a Christian, because I was always relying on my own strength and willpower and character traits (and a lot of times lack thereof) instead of Jesus's which led to a lot of self-esteem issues and depression, and I actually left the christian faith when I was in highschool because I did not understand this
Romans 8:9
9 But ye are not in the flesh, but in the Spirit, if so be that the Spirit of God dwell in you. Now if any man have not the Spirit of Christ, he is none of his.
Galatians 2:20
20 I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me.
basically I rely and depend on Jesus for everything now as a christian, because on my own practically nothing was good enough about me I haven't even been able to work a job in 5 years and am just now starting to be able to be functional enough again because of Jesus's holy spirit in me