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D_e_l_o_r_a said: 

I don't know why you're back-peddling now and claiming you're not poor/proud of being poor. You and TC don't pay rent - you live with parents? 

We're getting on Delora's case for effectively 'Woe is Me'-ing

venting and also expressing hoPe.

Eating off the ground and out of the trash, unnecessarily, while continuing to go on about how much SSI's confused you, how food's too expensive, and how Utilities drain a good chunk of your money when you could probably be cutting those down as well. 

about having to eat out of the trash by her own, Pica-fueled volition,

I dont eat out if garbage for pica i do it to be able to actually save money and get out if this situation one day

You could avoid eating trash if you budget. 

Eating bland meh food is typically better than trash and flowers. I can't imagine you're even getting any real calories out of flowers. 

as if you look at much of what she's saying there's contradictions in there. Delora's the one who's trying to say it's some sort of contest

And ms.C because thats what your gf was trying to do, practically wanted a butterfly chart

MissComm is always looking for a reason to jab at me and her though, her opinion's so biased it's opportunistic. As she said, all it takes is some reading comprehension to notice what her points were actually about. 

It's not a contest, and the sooner you drop that view the sooner it can be about ways you can save money. 

from missing the point of the message, again, when we've otherwise been going on about ways that she could use that money better based on how we've been using it.

BASED ON HOW YOU HAVE BEEN USING IT. you are i  a different situation than me. Also thats not all your gf was doing dude, if thats all she did it would be fine. but she was being  a bitch to.

We have the same SSI, albeit with you making $200 more than me and with BR bringing in money. There is no reason you have to be eating out of the trash, that's a choice. 

So at this point though you're more mad about some sense of tone, rather than the message itself? All she's done is say that she knows how to live on not very much money, and if you'd stop 'woe is me'-ing so much about 'the hole you're in' you might learn something. 

She keeps trying to make it personal when all we're otherwise trying to do is demonstrate that there's ways to make it work. If she's struggling this much on around $700 a month here, imagine how much of a struggle that will be with Hawaii prices. 

hawaii being to expensive is a rumor.

What sort of living there makes it not expensive? The cost of living there even with lower rent would still be higher, right? 

it depends on what you buy and what you eat. Our rent will already be affordable so thats step one.

...so more flowers and trash then? 

Delora's makes an extra $200 more than my SSI grants from being listed on file as paying rent

Cus i do. Again you have a 250 difference  whicb is cheaoer than rent.

You also have BR bringing in money don't you? 

Rent can also get pretty cheap if you live with roommates. 

and has reported that the Social Security people have taken money from her for having over the allotted amount. With some simple discussion a lot of what she's going through could be averted, rather than reducing it into this petty ego mess, and her confusion sounds like it's had her lose money without even trying to contest it. She even has BR bringing in money, why the hell is she eating flowers? 

Br has only had a job for so long and it was a temp job. I eat flowrrs because it is free food and free food means more money and more money means getting out of this trap faster.

Flowers aren't real food, you have to procure an entire cup of them to even get 25 calories out of it and there's basically no nutrients in it at all. 

Temp job or not he's still bringing in extra money isn't he? 

All she'd have to do is stop making it personal and it'd become a discussion about money. 

Notice how ithers who were just doing that, i was cool with em. Your gf was being  a bitch plain and simple. Over a situation she didnt understand.

She just wasn't taking your shit seriously over how you're being melodramatic. Your situation can be more affordable if you'd budget more, as you should be getting around at least 1500 calories a day (60 cups of dandelions). 

D_e_l_o_r_a said: 

QuietBeef said: 

Turncoat said: 

Just learn to budget and you'd be doing alright.

 ^^^^^^^

i am budgetting. Budget helps save the crumbs you have it does not suddenly make you have a good income. I literally am telling you i spend like nothing on food and other info that clearly shows i am using  an extreme budget, but because u want to jab u would rather say something that is retarded and unhelpful than actually saying something constructive 

What does your shopping list usually look like, and how often are you hitting the grocery? 

I'm just saying that food is surprisingly affordable if you look at as calories per dollar. 

D_e_l_o_r_a said: 

QuietBeef said: 

MissCommunication said: 

QuietBeef said: 

MissCommunication said 

QuietBeef said: 

D_e_l_o_r_a said: 

QuietBeef said: 

D_e_l_o_r_a said: 

I have to forage dandelions to eat, And gather the harvest from wild fruit trees. There are days that i go without eating at all. Food has grown more and more expensive overtime. i can see some ways to get out if my situation a little but but i cant help but feel stuck. I have lived on almost nothing for years trying to save the bits of money that trickle my way. I will buy some basic land soon and make a small farm so i can carr for my family someday. i am also going to try my hand at stock. Wish me lucK.

Um... Aren't you on SSI?  And didn't you brag about scamming them for more money than you're supposed to be getting?  If you're living on dandelions, you may want to rethink your spending habits. lol

 you clearly dont know anything about how ssi works. I am living on 750 a month and i am approved for food stamps but it never comes in the mail. due to covid i cant pick it up and tjey have resent the card 10+ times a d it never comes. No i dont brag about doing something for survival out of desperation. im eating dandelions because its the only way to save money so we can have enough to get out of this hole the system tries to trap me in and save enough scraps to crawl out. dony tell me how im wrong or how you tjink it works or actually works or should work or what your aunt sarahs situation is because you dont know shit about my life and im not going to explain it all.

 I'm TC's legal representative.  For SSI.  In the same state as you. lol

$750 per month is the maximum if you're paying rent.  You're staying with family instead of paying rent.  Which means you should be getting just over $500, max.  But, as you once boasted, you're lying to them about your living situation to maximize payments.

While I agree that either way it's not really a livable sum, it is in fact more than you're meant to be getting, and more than the nothing it takes to live on dandelions and dumpster diving.  A life I'm versed in myself, and can also go into detail on, should you choose to exploit the justification.  If you want to talk about living on less than $60/month, boy have I got some stories for you.

That entirely aside, I lost my job due to Covid, and in the meantime, TC's payments, without lying about our rent situation, is enough to cover food costs.  And we're not even on food stamps, like you are.

You say the card has continually not shown up in the mail, but they only send the card once, at the beginning of enrollment, if you're not receiving payment in checks.  You've been on SSI for some time, as I understand, and receiving payments.  Unless you mean that your food stamps haven't shown up, in which case you have SSI money you could be using instead.  And if it's truly been ten times in a row, you're in for a sizeable backpay, which I imagine you know.

You also chose to move to Hawaii, giving up your rent-free situation to pay an overpriced rental fee for a literal fucking tent. That doesn't scream 'desperation' to me.  It screams poor financial management.

I don't doubt you're under the poverty line, and that it's stressful.  Many people here are.  But let's not roleplay that you're like some potato famine victim, dying on the roadside with grass stains around your lips.  You're hoarding SSI.  I've got no beef with that, it's sensible, and honestly, fuck their system.  But you're fine.  You have money, and a support network.  And you only made this thread to congratulate yourself on your victimhood.

 lmao - it sounds like a competition

 

 

Also, I wasn't aware that you find poverty shameful.  Why is that?

 lol poverty isn’t shameful - competing to see who is/has been the biggest victim and shaming someone in the process is. Since you have previously admitted to not understanding nuance, I wasn’t referring to delora. She said in her OP she was trying to change her situation. 

 You clearly haven't read any of what I said.  I haven't even talked about my own financial situation.  I'm talking about Delora making it out as if she's worse off than she is for attention, and how I think she's mismanaging her resources.

and tc says she isnt being  a bitch. How cute. I probably manage my shit even better than you. The fact that i found a way to move to hawaii with this budget and be better than i was in ohio shows i am aMazing at managing the tiny bit i have. the fact that i am able to get almost all my food for free and with no food stamps, with a check designed for me to have them, goes to show i am fucking amazing with money for the tiny bit i get. the fact that i can feed two people with only 30$ a month for food is fucking amazing. I am the coupon queen, bow before me bitch. this is my kingdom of thrift. You wanna giVe advice? thats fine, but be a pest and you'll get stepped on.

Wtf? 

Okay, so ignoring how much you really want this to be a fight for some reason, to tally all of this up you're claiming you spend $30 per month on groceries, $200 on utilities, and $500 on rent right? 

Turncoat said: 

D_e_l_o_r_a said: 

QuietBeef said: 

Turncoat said: 

Just learn to budget and you'd be doing alright.

 ^^^^^^^

i am budgetting. Budget helps save the crumbs you have it does not suddenly make you have a good income. I literally am telling you i spend like nothing on food and other info that clearly shows i am using  an extreme budget, but because u want to jab u would rather say something that is retarded and unhelpful than actually saying something constructive 

What does your shopping list usually look like, and how often are you hitting the grocery? 

I'm just saying that food is surprisingly affordable if you look at as calories per dollar. 

 calories per dollar is not the only factor, hence vitamins ect. My shopping list varies based on what is on sale and i get plenty of bulk as well, and go ti multiple stores for the cheapest prices for different things. 

Turncoat said: 

D_e_l_o_r_a said: 

QuietBeef said: 

MissCommunication said: 

QuietBeef said: 

MissCommunication said 

QuietBeef said: 

D_e_l_o_r_a said: 

QuietBeef said: 

D_e_l_o_r_a said: 

I have to forage dandelions to eat, And gather the harvest from wild fruit trees. There are days that i go without eating at all. Food has grown more and more expensive overtime. i can see some ways to get out if my situation a little but but i cant help but feel stuck. I have lived on almost nothing for years trying to save the bits of money that trickle my way. I will buy some basic land soon and make a small farm so i can carr for my family someday. i am also going to try my hand at stock. Wish me lucK.

Um... Aren't you on SSI?  And didn't you brag about scamming them for more money than you're supposed to be getting?  If you're living on dandelions, you may want to rethink your spending habits. lol

 you clearly dont know anything about how ssi works. I am living on 750 a month and i am approved for food stamps but it never comes in the mail. due to covid i cant pick it up and tjey have resent the card 10+ times a d it never comes. No i dont brag about doing something for survival out of desperation. im eating dandelions because its the only way to save money so we can have enough to get out of this hole the system tries to trap me in and save enough scraps to crawl out. dony tell me how im wrong or how you tjink it works or actually works or should work or what your aunt sarahs situation is because you dont know shit about my life and im not going to explain it all.

 I'm TC's legal representative.  For SSI.  In the same state as you. lol

$750 per month is the maximum if you're paying rent.  You're staying with family instead of paying rent.  Which means you should be getting just over $500, max.  But, as you once boasted, you're lying to them about your living 

Wtf? 

Okay, so ignoring how much you really want this to be a fight for some reason, to tally all of this up you're claiming you spend $30 per month on groceries, $200 on utilities, and $500 on rent right? 

 yes.     

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  Turncoat said: 

  D_e_l_o_r_a said: 

  I don't know why you're back-peddling now and claiming you're not poor/proud of being poor. You and TC don't pay rent - you live with parents? 

  We're getting on Delora's case for effectively 'Woe is Me'-ing

  venting and also expressing hoPe.

  Eating off the ground and out of the trash, unnecessarily, while continuing to go on about how much SSI's confused you, how food's too expensive, and how Utilities drain a good chunk of your money when you could probably be cutting those down as well. 
  
  

  Ssi didnt confuse me. I just dont like being poor. I couldn't cut utilities it was complicated. But i justoved out of thag situation today

  about having to eat out of the trash by her own, Pica-fueled volition,

  I dont eat out if garbage for pica i do it to be able to actually save money and get out if this situation one day

   

   

  You could avoid eating trash if you budget.

   

  I do budget. Free food is a very helpful part of that budget.

  
  
  Eating bland meh food is typically better than trash and flowers. I can't imagine you're even getting any real calories out of flowers. 
  
  

  but its not cheaper.

  as if you look at much of what she's saying there's contradictions in there. Delora's the one who's trying to say it's some sort of contest

  And ms.C because thats what your gf was trying to do, practically wanted a butterfly chart

  MissComm is always looking for a reason to jab at me and her though, her opinion's so biased it's opportunistic. As she said, all it takes is some reading comprehension to notice what her points were actually about. 

   

  She jabs at you because you are silly

  
  
  It's not a contest, and the sooner you drop that view the sooner it can be about ways you can save money. 
  
  

  Its not she tried to act like it was.

  from missing the point of the message, again, when we've otherwise been going on about ways that she could use that money better based on how we've been using it.

  BASED ON HOW YOU HAVE BEEN USING IT. you are i  a different situation than me. Also thats not all your gf was doing dude, if thats all she did it would be fine. but she was being  a bitch to.

  We have the same SSI, albeit with you making $200 more than me and with BR bringing in money. There is no reason you have to be eating out of the trash, that's a choice. 

  If you are going to compare, br had a temp job which was unstable and payed far less than your girlfriends covid check or current job.

   

   

  
  
  So at this point though you're more mad about some sense of tone, rather than the message itself? All she's done is say that she knows how to live on not very much money, and if you'd stop 'woe is me'-ing so much about 'the hole you're in' you might learn something. 
  
  

  Yes the sense of tone matters. Shes being  a dick who acts like i cant vent

  She keeps trying to make it personal when all we're otherwise trying to do is demonstrate that there's ways to make it work. If she's struggling this much on around $700 a month here, imagine how much of a struggle that will be with Hawaii prices. 

  hawaii being to expensive is a rumor.

  What sort of living there makes it not expensive? The cost of living there even with lower rent would still be higher, right? 
  
  

  I explained this to your question 

  it depends on what you buy and what you eat. Our rent will already be affordable so thats step one.

  ...so more flowers and trash then? 
  
  

  No hawaii has far better wild food than the mainland. for example  You find even kne bread fruit tree and you Will never go hungry.  also hawaii can be just as expensive as the mainland in price. Eat fish nkt beef. Eat green papaya not lettuce. Stuff like that. everyone always wants usual staples but once you get past that you are fine. The tropical environment makes some things cheaper than here.

  Delora's makes an extra $200 more than my SSI grants from being listed on file as paying rent

  Cus i do. Again you have a 250 difference  whicb is cheaoer than rent.

  You also have BR bringing in money don't you? 
  
  Rent can also get pretty cheap if you live with roommates. 
  
  

  and has reported that the Social Security people have taken money from her for having over the allotted amount. With some simple discussion a lot of what she's going through could be averted, rather than reducing it into this petty ego mess, and her confusion sounds like it's had her lose money without even trying to contest it. She even has BR bringing in money, why the hell is she eating flowers? 

  Br has only had a job for so long and it was a temp job. I eat flowrrs because it is free food and free food means more money and more money means getting out of this trap faster.

  Flowers aren't real food, you have to procure an entire cup of them to even get 25 calories out of it and there's basically no nutrients in it at all. 

   

  Vitamins. Pick up a boom, calories are not all there is.Stop living on noodles.

  
  
  Temp job or not he's still bringing in extra money isn't he? 
  
  

  Not currently.We are hoping to find new work. I made this post stressed because bo had just gotten Laid off .

  All she'd have to do is stop making it personal and it'd become a discussion about money. 

  Notice how ithers who were just doing that, i was cool with em. Your gf was being  a bitch plain and simple. Over a situation she didnt understand.

   

  She just wasn't taking your shit seriously over how you're being melodramatic. Your situation can be more affordable if you'd budget more, as you should be getting around at least 1500 calories a day (60 cups of dandelions). 
  
  

   calories are not all there is sherlock, i eat dandelions when i dont have enough vitamins on hand, and other foraged greens. 

D_e_l_o_r_a said: 

Turncoat said: 

D_e_l_o_r_a said: 

QuietBeef said: 

Turncoat said: 

Just learn to budget and you'd be doing alright.

 ^^^^^^^

i am budgetting. Budget helps save the crumbs you have it does not suddenly make you have a good income. I literally am telling you i spend like nothing on food and other info that clearly shows i am using  an extreme budget, but because u want to jab u would rather say something that is retarded and unhelpful than actually saying something constructive 

What does your shopping list usually look like, and how often are you hitting the grocery? 

I'm just saying that food is surprisingly affordable if you look at as calories per dollar. 

calories per dollar is not the only factor, hence vitamins ect. My shopping list varies based on what is on sale and i get plenty of bulk as well, and go ti multiple stores for the cheapest prices for different things. 

What's it usually look like though? 

Also what's your breakdown for utilities? 

Turncoat said: 

MissCommunication said: 

QuietBeef said: 

MissCommunication said: 

QuietBeef said: 

D_e_l_o_r_a said: 

Fyi if i were br,s legal rep mommy daddy house in a fancy rich people town would never let me hear the end if it.

"i live with my mommy and im ok so you must be to!"

Just as much projection as "my lady partner controls my finances cus im quirky and sub like dat UwU you must be like dat to!"

 Is this a gendered issue to you?  What's so odd about the woman in the relationship being in charge of the finances?

 So you don't think TC is a woman?

 I'm talking about what Delora thinks.  I know your reading comprehension is not stellar, but please at least try to keep up with the sections you're replying to.

 My reading comprehension is fine but yours needs work. Delora didn't say anything about TC's gender, only that his 'lady partner' managed his finances. You were the one who referred to "the woman in the relationship" implying there's only one and it's you.

So do you think TC is a woman?

If you look at how she worded it, she said 'the woman' without self-referencing. There's nothing in what either Delora nor Crow said that aims to presume my gender beyond the implications in Delora's statement of the gender binary. 

 The self-reference is implied with the conversation being about your situation and delora's comment about how your lady partner, crow, (she could have said gf) manages your finances to which crow replied "What's so odd about the woman in the relationship being in charge of the finances?" She could have said what's odd about 'me' or 'one partner' managing the finances instead she specified 'the woman" -- which implies there is only one woman in your relationship.   

MissCommunication said: 

Turncoat said: 

MissCommunication said: 

QuietBeef said: 

MissCommunication said: 

QuietBeef said: 

D_e_l_o_r_a said: 

Fyi if i were br,s legal rep mommy daddy house in a fancy rich people town would never let me hear the end if it.

"i live with my mommy and im ok so you must be to!"

Just as much projection as "my lady partner controls my finances cus im quirky and sub like dat UwU you must be like dat to!"

 Is this a gendered issue to you?  What's so odd about the woman in the relationship being in charge of the finances?

 So you don't think TC is a woman?

 I'm talking about what Delora thinks.  I know your reading comprehension is not stellar, but please at least try to keep up with the sections you're replying to.

 My reading comprehension is fine but yours needs work. Delora didn't say anything about TC's gender, only that his 'lady partner' managed his finances. You were the one who referred to "the woman in the relationship" implying there's only one and it's you.

So do you think TC is a woman?

If you look at how she worded it, she said 'the woman' without self-referencing. There's nothing in what either Delora nor Crow said that aims to presume my gender beyond the implications in Delora's statement of the gender binary. 

 The self-reference is implied with the conversation being about your situation and delora's comment about how your lady partner, crow, (she could have said gf) manages your finances to which crow replied "What's so odd about the woman in the relationship being in charge of the finances?" She could have said what's odd about 'me' or 'one partner' managing the finances instead she specified 'the woman" -- which implies there is only one woman in your relationship.   

 i dont give a fuck wtf you call yourself or anyone else. Fyi tc said you can call him he. 

MissCommunication said: 

Turncoat said: 

MissCommunication said: 

QuietBeef said: 

MissCommunication said: 

QuietBeef said: 

D_e_l_o_r_a said: 

Fyi if i were br,s legal rep mommy daddy house in a fancy rich people town would never let me hear the end if it.

"i live with my mommy and im ok so you must be to!"

Just as much projection as "my lady partner controls my finances cus im quirky and sub like dat UwU you must be like dat to!"

 Is this a gendered issue to you?  What's so odd about the woman in the relationship being in charge of the finances?

 So you don't think TC is a woman?

 I'm talking about what Delora thinks.  I know your reading comprehension is not stellar, but please at least try to keep up with the sections you're replying to.

 My reading comprehension is fine but yours needs work. Delora didn't say anything about TC's gender, only that his 'lady partner' managed his finances. You were the one who referred to "the woman in the relationship" implying there's only one and it's you.

So do you think TC is a woman?

If you look at how she worded it, she said 'the woman' without self-referencing. There's nothing in what either Delora nor Crow said that aims to presume my gender beyond the implications in Delora's statement of the gender binary. 

 The self-reference is implied with the conversation being about your situation and delora's comment about how your lady partner, crow, (she could have said gf) manages your finances to which crow replied "What's so odd about the woman in the relationship being in charge of the finances?" She could have said what's odd about 'me' or 'one partner' managing the finances instead she specified 'the woman" -- which implies there is only one woman in your relationship.   

 i identify as a salad suck my big fat tomato. No omes pussy has anything to do with this. i never implied woman relationship blah blah the woman whatever and i dont care. 

Turncoat has a big fat cock