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Whorechata said: 

TC, at some point you have to let BR make his own mistakes. He's not going to listen to you, he's dead set on following Delora and the more you attempt to drive a wedge between them the more they feel they need to stick together to fight against the "haters".

 

If her drinking drain solution in the bathroom to threaten suicide didn't wake him up to how manipulative she is, reasonable conversation and evidence will do nothing. Stop trying to help him, he needs to decide on his own and maybe hopefully everyone is wrong and their marriage will be fine and happy. If not well, he was told warned. He can dig himself out of the hole and go back to Ohio. 

Anything helpful you're doing is going to be turned and twisted into something else. Sometimes just gotta let someone eat shit before they realize they don't like it. 

He's literally repeating past mistakes now, and he was just starting to get better. Letting him eat shit's like letting someone with Pica eat bricks. 

Are you just using this site because your wife is here and you want to watch over her? Here is a thread of you defending yourself over how people construe situations. What do you prove by clearing anything up?

BohemianRhapsody said: 

natasha87 said: 

yes bro. he is trying to get you to talk about things that were distressing to delora to trigger her again and stress u out, putting more strain on your marriage. he's fucking demented lmao then he'll be like SEE I TOLD U SHE'S BAD YOU SHOULD BE WITH ME INSTEAD

meanwhile his 'trustworthy handler' literally laughed at him while he was suicidal, were u here when crow made the thread telling us all he had gone to walk in traffic? what bigger indication that someone doesn't give a single fuck about u is there lmao

 Man, I didnt know that. Turncoat dude, if this is legit you need to cut this girl out. That is not cool. 

As much as I don't see eye-to-eye with Natasha, she's showing herself to be right here... And insightful. Turncoat's reluctance to put his own relationship into a spotlight while simultaneously being so eager to put yours there.. out of "concern"... raises some question marks. If what Natasha says is true, that's a fucked up relationship right there... he should be focusing on his own problems and ditching the girl instead of projecting those problems onto you.

Having said that... I don't know what your relationship is like. I do know that Turncoat has made up his mind.. and no amount of hammering it into his head that he's got things wrong is going to help you.

At any rate.. I'm happy for you. I'm sure you will enjoy Hawaii.

Turncoat said: 

He's I'm literally repeating past mistakes now, and he I was just starting to get better. Letting him me eat shit's like letting someone with Pica eat bricks.

Would you look at this, Natasha? The guy is so concerned for BR... Lol.

Like I said, it's a recurring problem.

Tryptamine said: 

Are you just using this site because your wife is here and you want to watch over her?

He did just appear out of nowhere alongside this topic once she was quoted talking about going to 'the island'. Before that it'd been him trying to keep her off of here, which itself was largely why he'd left as well. 

When one of them is on here, the other one will appear eventually. 

Here is a thread of you defending yourself over how people construe situations. What do you prove by clearing anything up?

He's proving it to himself through us and the website. 

Turncoat said: 

Whorechata said: 

TC, at some point you have to let BR make his own mistakes. He's not going to listen to you, he's dead set on following Delora and the more you attempt to drive a wedge between them the more they feel they need to stick together to fight against the "haters".

 

If her drinking drain solution in the bathroom to threaten suicide didn't wake him up to how manipulative she is, reasonable conversation and evidence will do nothing. Stop trying to help him, he needs to decide on his own and maybe hopefully everyone is wrong and their marriage will be fine and happy. If not well, he was told warned. He can dig himself out of the hole and go back to Ohio. 

Anything helpful you're doing is going to be turned and twisted into something else. Sometimes just gotta let someone eat shit before they realize they don't like it. 

He's literally repeating past mistakes now, and he was just starting to get better. Letting him eat shit's like letting someone with Pica eat bricks. 

 Let him. 

Nothing you do right now is going to change his mind, he's a full ass adult. It's not on you if he gets hurt maybe that's what he needs. Either he'll wake up to the absurd shit on his own or he'll allow it to continue until he's miserable enough for it to not matter. He's not going to stop or leave her just because you're worried about him. 

Let the brick eater eat bricks whenever she's throwing a tantrum and let him make the mistakes he wants to make. 

Whorechata said: 

Turncoat said: 

Whorechata said: 

TC, at some point you have to let BR make his own mistakes. He's not going to listen to you, he's dead set on following Delora and the more you attempt to drive a wedge between them the more they feel they need to stick together to fight against the "haters".

 

If her drinking drain solution in the bathroom to threaten suicide didn't wake him up to how manipulative she is, reasonable conversation and evidence will do nothing. Stop trying to help him, he needs to decide on his own and maybe hopefully everyone is wrong and their marriage will be fine and happy. If not well, he was told warned. He can dig himself out of the hole and go back to Ohio. 

Anything helpful you're doing is going to be turned and twisted into something else. Sometimes just gotta let someone eat shit before they realize they don't like it. 

He's literally repeating past mistakes now, and he was just starting to get better. Letting him eat shit's like letting someone with Pica eat bricks. 

 Let him. 

Nothing you do right now is going to change his mind, he's a full ass adult. It's not on you if he gets hurt maybe that's what he needs. Either he'll wake up to the absurd shit on his own or he'll allow it to continue until he's miserable enough for it to not matter. He's not going to stop or leave her just because you're worried about him. 

Let the brick eater eat bricks whenever she's throwing a tantrum and let him make the mistakes he wants to make. 

 Delora does not eat bricks to throw a fit. She generally does it shen she is in a calm or neutral mood, or is mildly nervous due to overstimulation from sounds or bright lights. She is diagnosed with a condition called pica and has done it since she was a child. She does not do it when she remembers to take her iron pills. Pica is common with people on the autism spectrum and it runs in her family. Her lead poisoning causes lacking minerals in her system which may also contribute. She understands that she should not do this but it is, as her doctor says, a very strong addiction that is difficult to crack. It is more realistic to get over it by finding the source if the problem. 

Whorechata said: 

Turncoat said: 

Whorechata said: 

TC, at some point you have to let BR make his own mistakes. He's not going to listen to you, he's dead set on following Delora and the more you attempt to drive a wedge between them the more they feel they need to stick together to fight against the "haters".

 

If her drinking drain solution in the bathroom to threaten suicide didn't wake him up to how manipulative she is, reasonable conversation and evidence will do nothing. Stop trying to help him, he needs to decide on his own and maybe hopefully everyone is wrong and their marriage will be fine and happy. If not well, he was told warned. He can dig himself out of the hole and go back to Ohio. 

Anything helpful you're doing is going to be turned and twisted into something else. Sometimes just gotta let someone eat shit before they realize they don't like it. 

He's literally repeating past mistakes now, and he was just starting to get better. Letting him eat shit's like letting someone with Pica eat bricks. 

Let him. 

Nothing you do right now is going to change his mind, he's a full ass adult. It's not on you if he gets hurt maybe that's what he needs. Either he'll wake up to the absurd shit on his own or he'll allow it to continue until he's miserable enough for it to not matter. He's not going to stop or leave her just because you're worried about him. 

Let the brick eater eat bricks whenever she's throwing a tantrum and let him make the mistakes he wants to make. 

Yeah but it sucks. 

BohemianRhapsody said: 

Delora does not eat bricks to throw a fit. She generally does it shen she is in a calm or neutral mood, or is mildly nervous due to overstimulation from sounds or bright lights. She is diagnosed with a condition called pica and has done it since she was a child. She does not do it when she remembers to take her iron pills. Pica is common with people on the autism spectrum and it runs in her family. Her lead poisoning causes lacking minerals in her system which may also contribute. She understands that she should not do this but it is, as her doctor says, a very strong addiction that is difficult to crack. It is more realistic to get over it by finding the source if the problem. 

 Ouch...

Turncoat said: 

/watches Sugar defend why BR should be with Delora

 i don't know if they should be together cos it's not my business or decision to make, it's theirs. this is what you don't get. if you were his mother this would still be inappropriate, the extent to which you are trying to force and manipulate him into looking at his wife in a negative way. it's fucking insane