All the beta haters are just jealous that I stopped dreaming and started doing. I do what I want, get over it.
My grandiose delusions are better than yours.
You mean you do what she wants, amirite?
It's fine though dude, there's nothing wrong with being a sub. You don't have to pretend that everything you're doing here is purely your own idea or plan, it's hers, and as a matter of power dynamics it may not be traditional but it's otherwise something plenty of people find themselves doing.
Ę̵̚x̸͎̾i̴͚̽s̵̻͐t̷͐ͅe̷̯͠n̴̤̚t̵̻̅i̵͉̿a̴̮͊l̵͍̂ ̴̹̕D̵̤̀e̸͓͂t̵̢͂e̴͕̓c̸̗̄t̴̗̿ï̶̪v̷̲̍é̵͔
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You mean you do what she wants, amirite?
It's fine though dude, there's nothing wrong with being a sub. You don't have to pretend that everything you're doing here is purely your own idea or plan, it's hers, and as a matter of power dynamics it may not be traditional but it's otherwise something plenty of people find themselves doing.
Right, she was here for three years. She was miserable. I thought if I found ways to keep her here she would learn to be happy, but she never was. She told me this would never happen, but it was myself who chose to think it would. She stopped eating, sleeping, or smiling. Her hair started to fall out, and all she ever did was cry and it was lame. Even her singing was only ever about that place. Just because I do something partially because I want to make my wife happy, does not mean I am a sub. She's going with or without me, like she said she would the day I met her. I just choose to go with her, just like she chose to stay here for so long, and put up with my dad, and my bullshit, and be somewhere she hates.
My grandiose delusions are better than yours.
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Predictable trash.
You're so see through and predictable yet so unspeakably delusional and devoid of self awareness.
Mark my words, you and your "wife" will never leave this site. And you will never move on from her dark past or all the trolls that feed on your meltdowns and your sub-dom codependence.
Never, ever.
Predictable trash.
You're so see through and predictable yet so unspeakably delusional and devoid of self awareness.
Mark my words, you and your "wife" will never leave this site. And you will never move on from her dark past or all the trolls that feed on your meltdowns and your sub-dom codependence.
Never, ever.
She is my wife. Are you above the law?
My grandiose delusions are better than yours.
What happened..?
Turncoat wants my dick.
My grandiose delusions are better than yours.
You mean you do what she wants, amirite?
It's fine though dude, there's nothing wrong with being a sub. You don't have to pretend that everything you're doing here is purely your own idea or plan, it's hers, and as a matter of power dynamics it may not be traditional but it's otherwise something plenty of people find themselves doing.Right, she was here for three years. She was miserable. I thought if I found ways to keep her here she would learn to be happy, but she never was.
What makes you think Hawaii will make her any happier other than maybe a time where she feels like she got her way?
Past a point she will have successfully isolated you from all you were once connected to, and once you make new connections it'll just be the same problems all over again except on a tropical island.
She stopped eating, sleeping, or smiling. Her hair started to fall out, and all she ever did was cry and it was lame. Even her singing was only ever about that place.
How is Hawaii supposed to fix this beyond a placebo improvement? Go figure if she stopped eating and sleeping to make a point that she'd become unhealthy, stress out, and potentially lose hair and cry and shit. This is just her throwing a tantrum until she gets what she wants, and at the end of the day you're the type to give in to what takes less time to think about rather than find a different path.
There isn't some magical property Hawaii has that will fix the problems going on here, this is you blaming yourself for everything that you see her going through, which is why she wears the pants in this relationship and calls the shots enough to have yourself doing whatever she wants.
Again, speaking as a sub myself I completely understand. I just wish the one you were subbing with had enough self control that you didn't have to compensate over it this much. As a sub it's easier to find peace when you know your respective dom can be trusted to know what they're doing.
Just because I do something partially because I want to make my wife happy, does not mean I am a sub.
In another person's case I'd agree, but in this case you are specifically at her beck and call.
I've seen it, you're somewhere between her handler and her servant. The only times you even question what's going on is when her orders are too tall, which considering how she behaves when she's not getting her way is a big "go figure".
She's going with or without me, like she said she would the day I met her. I just choose to go with her, just like she chose to stay here for so long, and put up with my dad, and my bullshit, and be somewhere she hates.
Ahh, she Ultimatum'd the minute you started to find your own path.
If you said no she'd probably have stayed behind, but I get it, you think she'd pick Hawaii over you.
Ę̵̚x̸͎̾i̴͚̽s̵̻͐t̷͐ͅe̷̯͠n̴̤̚t̵̻̅i̵͉̿a̴̮͊l̵͍̂ ̴̹̕D̵̤̀e̸͓͂t̵̢͂e̴͕̓c̸̗̄t̴̗̿ï̶̪v̷̲̍é̵͔
You're so see through and predictable yet so unspeakably delusional and devoid of self awareness.
He's better about it when she's not around, something about her presence confuses him enough to throw his own integrity into the trash.
I legit feel bad, but this is one of the many ways that someone can leash another. If someone's going to be another's pet, their pet owner at least has to be doing a good enough job or both will suffer.
Ę̵̚x̸͎̾i̴͚̽s̵̻͐t̷͐ͅe̷̯͠n̴̤̚t̵̻̅i̵͉̿a̴̮͊l̵͍̂ ̴̹̕D̵̤̀e̸͓͂t̵̢͂e̴͕̓c̸̗̄t̴̗̿ï̶̪v̷̲̍é̵͔