"I hope you're having a lovely day."
"Do you?"
"Don't I?"
"I hope you're having a lovely day."
"Do you?"
"Don't I?"
This is why you're Jerry.
You people aren't self aware and can't introspect so you come here for therapy/ how to act/ behave. It's party autism. I'm depressing having had clicked on an interesting title and seen mainly pseudointellectual postings.
lol
Caring really is hard, I often don't know where to begin. I see it a bit like exercise though. The beginning is the hardest part.
What do you try to care about?
Being able to admit faults and flaws and having feelings about certain things shows a level of openness without defesiveness. I'm sure you've noticed that people usually say how much they don't care when actually the subject is something they care about; they're trying to gaslight you and themselves. At the end of the day, everyone cares about something, and trying to project otherwise is a sign of fragility.
Yet those who refuse to admit their faults infuriatingly stick in your memories whereas those who dont... fade away. You choose who you want to be.
I've mostly seen the ones bottled as the ones that stick, while the ones vented have room to mill down and fade. Not focusing on the issues is an easy way for it to become a repetitious cycle in the first place, while noting them only risks the indulgence of venting itself.
"I hope you're having a lovely day."
"Do you?"
"Don't I?"
This is why you're Jerry.
Why do you care so much, Summer?
Caring really is hard, I often don't know where to begin. I see it a bit like exercise though. The beginning is the hardest part.
What do you try to care about?
Maintaining relationships. I feel drained very easily even after the first few contacts and recently discovered how much fun it can be to be a stranger with infinite potential instead. I power my way through things and coast on the sporadic episodes of motivation but mostly I just feel tired.