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scarlett95 said: 

it seemed to me that delora started actively and openly disliking me around the time that I relapsed over a year ago, and she tried to come on to xad (sending an unsolicited nude etc) and he turned her down. 

Her version ought to be interesting to compare with yours. 

If the story has no basis, we'll see it for ourselves. 

in the conversation she was acting like properly sociopathic and she was saying things about how it felt good to "seen" finally, so I was going along with it and trying to make her feel like I was a companion she could feel comfortable sharing with

So again, ignoring the character smearing you're trying here, you play characters in order to get the things you want out of people. 

This is effectively Exhibit A. 

perhaps naive of me to assume she wasn't trying to bait me into saying something that could later be used against me

I don't really see Delora as this schemey mastermind. She gets things wrong sometimes but she's not really the sort of poise that works off of bait-and-switch, she rushes into things instead. 

and I'm not denying that I certainly said things that could be used against me

Of what nature? You felt inspired to delete it, so it must have been something you wanted to keep hidden. 

but I wasn't worried at the time about what I was saying as I never imagined that I would have to defend myself against it. When I realised that was also naive of me (quite a while later), I deleted the conversation. 

How often do you usually find yourself deleting conversations like this? 

I think I've defended myself enough already tbh, I get that you're curious but it's actually kind of, and I mean no offence, not really your business, regardless of the fact that some people might feel entitled to more information now that certain things have already been made public by either myself, xad or shifty. anyway, the people who are close to me know the truth and that's more than enough for me :) 

Your defensiveness could just as easily mean that we're onto something. 

EDIT: I bear delora no ill will, I'm glad she seems to be happy with bo

No, you clearly do. Stop with the fake PR, the above is not "no ill will", this is practically smearing her name and credibility pure and simple. 

Her side of the story is the only way to balance this out. 

aubrieta said: 

I want shiftycunt to vc so bad lol why is he such a pussy its just a voice chat he doesnt even have to admit to anything illegal he can omit all of that

For real, he can just brag about how Tor works or something. 

For a character that's supposedly very confrontational hes a bit of a pussy. I'm having a lot of trouble seeing him as this psychopath he's been played up to be. 

That wording, how scandalous

Edit: I've been on discord too long 

Lena said: 

For a character that's supposedly very confrontational hes a bit of a pussy. I'm having a lot of trouble seeing him as this psychopath he's been played up to be. 

 It's a relief more than anything. He has hurt people in the past, so idk. But yeah he's definitely a dimwit. 

Xadem said: 

Lena said: 

For a character that's supposedly very confrontational hes a bit of a pussy. I'm having a lot of trouble seeing him as this psychopath he's been played up to be. 

 It's a relief more than anything. He has hurt people in the past, so idk. But yeah he's definitely a dimwit. 

 Yes, I'm sure he has. 

Has scar actual seen him stalking her house? 

Holy titballs Scar, how can you be so bad at this xD 

Alright what happened here is Scar wanted to be assertive so she tried to dispel this notion that she is Shifty but she did a half assed job of it. She tried to sate TC's curiosity by throwing him small bones, because she was uncomfortable and that was her idea of handling it. As if that'd make the entire thing go away... In this manner she really did act like a child, uncomfortable and probably scared. She should have just come clean with everything and not naively believe that just making an appearance and addressing a few details would somehow not open up more questions (which she clearly was not prepared for) and that made her anxious and so she fucked up. 

She came off really robotic and disingenuous in these replies, it just fucking annoys me but whatever. I don't feel anxiety like she does, I get why she messed up, but I've asked her to just recollect herself and then she can address this shit properly. 

She really hates all this, and honestly I also am not a fan of the direction this has gone in. Except of course having shifty seen as such a non-threat is quite gratifying, lel. I've refrained from addressing all this stuff myself seeing as I can't fully talk for her and I also think that this at the very least can be a learning experience for her on how to handle uncomfortable social situations. 

Huh

Oh

No

I was saying 

If shes sure its him (I'm leaving the theory of her puppet for now) and not someone pretending to be him. It sounds way off that he would say this shit and not want to speak. So I was wondering if she was sure it was him. Like if shes seen him.

Alright so expressing emotions and weakness or uncertainty in public is really uncomfortable for me... But I realise that by trying to sweep them under the rug maybe I just appear hostile and weak anyway. After talking to Xad I can see how badly I came across in the last couple posts...

I suppose it's not bad to admit that I actually am flustered. Facing confrontation is something I'm really bad at, especially with such personal content, but idk I'm trying. I really wish I was better at communicating...

I can see why Delora and other people would be distrusting of me, I mean I guess I do hide things but it's not because I have bad intentions it's because I hate feeling exposed and vulnerable, and I find it really hard to let people in... Probably because of my past, which is also painful to admit and talk about.

Even just making this post is really hard for me and I'm not sure how to show that I'm genuine. I'm kind of at a loss with how to handle a lot of this...

Xad told me to address it, idk I'm trying but I'm so so bad at guaging what to share or how to express myself.

I'm certain that shiftycunt is actually my ex, but sadly I can't concretely prove it even though there's a ton of circumstantial evidence. He has been caught doing stalkery shit before and I don't see how anyone else could know some of the things that shiftycunt has said. As far as real life stuff goes there's a reason xad won't reveal too much and I probably shouldn't either, just please stop saying that I'm shifty.

I'm anxious because I don't know if I'm oversharing or undersharing and both seem to get me into trouble.

Okay that's good