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For now, instead of looking at it all as being too much, you need to have BR call them. When they say only you can talk to them about it, have him put you on the phone to consent for it. They will likely tell you that you'll need to fill out some paperwork, which they will then send in the mail, which when filled out and sent back will allow him to oversee the funds that come to you without it even having to be from a marriage. 

 Br does everything wrong to. He can't even get eggs he will get my check cancled. He's more dysfunctional irl than online. Even if he could help, I've tried getting him to help me. He can talk on the phone to them but neither of us know wtf these people are talking about. Whenever br is on the phone he always says something retarded, and throws a brat fit even when I'm right there trying to explain to him what he needs to say. He had gotten my check cancled before, because he kept saying we had moved already (when legally it was still a vacation) before we were able to make a proper address change, even when I was right there reminding his ass of the law, and he was arrogantly swatting me away with his hand. Hell, at right state he lost thousands of dollars because he refused to ask the secretary about the coronavirus loan forgiveness plan even though I told him every day for months. He can't even handle his own self

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So this is really about you not wanting BR to be in charge of it? 

Br does everything wrong to. He can't even get eggs he will get my check cancled. He's more dysfunctional irl than online. Even if he could help, I've tried getting him to help me. He can talk on the phone to them but neither of us know wtf these people are talking about. Whenever br is on the phone he always says something retarded, and throws a brat fit even when I'm right there trying to explain to him what he needs to say. He had gotten my check cancled before, because he kept saying we had moved already (when legally it was still a vacation) before we were able to make a proper address change, even when I was right there reminding his ass of the law, and he was arrogantly swatting me away with his hand. Hell, at right state he lost thousands of dollars because he refused to ask the secretary about the coronavirus loan forgiveness plan even though I told him every day for months. He can't even handle his own self
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1 votes RE: Hey BR, is there an iss...

This sounds like you and bo both need a social worker assigned to help you with things like, making sure your disability papers are filed properly and helping you access the most helpful programs for you.

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0 votes RE: Hey BR, is there an iss...

For now, instead of looking at it all as being too much, you need to have BR call them. When they say only you can talk to them about it, have him put you on the phone to consent for it. They will likely tell you that you'll need to fill out some paperwork, which they will then send in the mail, which when filled out and sent back will allow him to oversee the funds that come to you without it even having to be from a marriage. 

 Br does everything wrong to. He can't even get eggs he will get my check cancled. He's more dysfunctional irl than online. Even if he could help, I've tried getting him to help me. He can talk on the phone to them but neither of us know wtf these people are talking about. Whenever br is on the phone he always says something retarded, and throws a brat fit even when I'm right there trying to explain to him what he needs to say. He had gotten my check cancled before, because he kept saying we had moved already (when legally it was still a vacation) before we were able to make a proper address change, even when I was right there reminding his ass of the law, and he was arrogantly swatting me away with his hand. Hell, at right state he lost thousands of dollars because he refused to ask the secretary about the coronavirus loan forgiveness plan even though I told him every day for months. He can't even handle his own self

 how you gonna talk shit on my boy like that

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HeyBR said: 

For now, instead of looking at it all as being too much, you need to have BR call them. When they say only you can talk to them about it, have him put you on the phone to consent for it. They will likely tell you that you'll need to fill out some paperwork, which they will then send in the mail, which when filled out and sent back will allow him to oversee the funds that come to you without it even having to be from a marriage. 

 Br does everything wrong to. He can't even get eggs he will get my check cancled. He's more dysfunctional irl than online. Even if he could help, I've tried getting him to help me. He can talk on the phone to them but neither of us know wtf these people are talking about. Whenever br is on the phone he always says something retarded, and throws a brat fit even when I'm right there trying to explain to him what he needs to say. He had gotten my check cancled before, because he kept saying we had moved already (when legally it was still a vacation) before we were able to make a proper address change, even when I was right there reminding his ass of the law, and he was arrogantly swatting me away with his hand. Hell, at right state he lost thousands of dollars because he refused to ask the secretary about the coronavirus loan forgiveness plan even though I told him every day for months. He can't even handle his own self

 how you gonna talk shit on my boy like that

 The purpose isn't to talk shit it's the truth

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See, people are reasonable.

 Reasonable enough to threaten to report people to the disability office for working under the table when the person they are reporting has to do that to afford rent and public transportation...

You're technically committing disability fraud, which takes funds away from those that actually need it.

Nope. You know nothing. I have legit brain damage. There are legal loopholes in the system to make the same amount of money over the table, but I'm ironically to disabled to figure out how. 

How does having legit brain damage make it any less fraudulent? 

If you're receiving disability, then you should have someone's number to call for matters of your case. It's their job to help sort out the portions you don't understand, so why not use the government rather than con it? 

 (Disclaimer, this is all fictional and there is no under the table work of any kind or fraud)

I try to call they always say all this shit I don't understand. All I know is I want to eat. My mom called them without my wanting her to pretending to be me for years, and my mom is better at understanding them than me. That's part of the reason I think they don't help me as.much, is because my mom pretending to be me made me look more capable of understanding them then I really am. Also they don't do there jobs. Once I said I might own property in Ohio but was unsure if it was in my name and instead of looking into it they cancelled my entire check for a while til some how something made them have to give me my check back. I later found out the rule is I have to provide proof I own the property, and I even told them I was unsure, but they just assumed the worst. Apparently people with a fourth of an acre of raw land with nothing on it don't need food. The ohio land turned out to not be in my name and something my mom just told me to make me happy. (And also have me help pay for the land at one point) This was yeas ago.

 delora, please delete this post lmao. for your own sake. lena's not gonna do anything with it but someone else might. (i'm not implying i would)

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0 votes RE: Hey BR, is there an iss...

See, people are reasonable.

 Reasonable enough to threaten to report people to the disability office for working under the table when the person they are reporting has to do that to afford rent and public transportation...

You're technically committing disability fraud, which takes funds away from those that actually need it.

Nope. You know nothing. I have legit brain damage. There are legal loopholes in the system to make the same amount of money over the table, but I'm ironically to disabled to figure out how. 

How does having legit brain damage make it any less fraudulent? 

If you're receiving disability, then you should have someone's number to call for matters of your case. It's their job to help sort out the portions you don't understand, so why not use the government rather than con it? 

 (Disclaimer, this is all fictional and there is no under the table work of any kind or fraud)

I try to call they always say all this shit I don't understand. All I know is I want to eat.

Have BR be your designated guardian or w/e and handle your calls for you. I have a designated person for that on the off chance I need something while I'm too imbalanced to handle it myself. 

My mom called them without my wanting her to pretending to be me for years, and my mom is better at understanding them than me. That's part of the reason I think they don't help me as.much, is because my mom pretending to be me made me look more capable of understanding them then I really am.

Explain that to them then. 

Also they don't do there jobs.

They will if you ram it down their throats, and if they won't you can call the main line and get it done around them. 

You can also report them for otherwise giving an attitude or making the process more difficult. 

Once I said I might own property in Ohio but was unsure if it was in my name and instead of looking into it they cancelled my entire check for a while til some how something made them have to give me my check back.

I too have lost a check before, they make mistakes. 

It sucks, but then you just need to call them again. 

I later found out the rule is I have to provide proof I own the property, and I even told them I was unsure, but they just assumed the worst. Apparently people with a fourth of an acre of raw land with nothing on it don't need food. The ohio land turned out to not be in my name and something my mom just told me to make me happy. (And also have me help pay for the land at one point) This was yeas ago.

It sounds more like you're mad that they confuse you so much, and rather than utilize a system you don't understand you'd rather con it. 

 she's not faking her disability like you you moron lmao. she's actually disabled which means she struggles with the procedural aspects of this, which the system knows and is designed to exploit. if she was faking her issues like you she could simply call them, bother them, make complaints etc and keep on top of things. when you actually have real mental health issues these things are much more difficult. 'OMG WHY CANT U JUST UTILIZE IT LIKE I DO???'

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UseIn disability, people who have actual mental disabilities and no real help suffer and are expected to live off nothing, while higher functioning people with "anxiety" or some shit, who find all the legal loopholes get to live the good life, while the lower functioning people struggling to figure it out via under the table work, are shit on. You live with your parents. Your family helps you, and you know how to do things. So of course your confused. There are legal loopholes where I would make the exact same amount of money (legal separation, ebt cash, food stamps, housing assistance, the back to work goodwill program, ect) but I never figure out how to do any of it. I don't see why me having the same amount as someone who crossed there I,s and dotted there t,s is unfair, when we both have the same amount but in different ways. I actually have less than those people. I'm not taking money from other disabled people who had the same amount!  Thoe's people get more than I do! The law is so fucked, that's why there's so many homeless people and shit.

Just figure it out then, don't con the government. 

If you can figure out math and foraging and shit, I think you can figure out food stamps. 

 translation: if you were smart like me you'd be able to do all these things even though you have a mental disability. not only am i smarter but i'm a better person than you.

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0 votes RE: Hey BR, is there an iss...

For now, instead of looking at it all as being too much, you need to have BR call them. When they say only you can talk to them about it, have him put you on the phone to consent for it. They will likely tell you that you'll need to fill out some paperwork, which they will then send in the mail, which when filled out and sent back will allow him to oversee the funds that come to you without it even having to be from a marriage. 

 Br does everything wrong to. He can't even get eggs he will get my check cancled. He's more dysfunctional irl than online. Even if he could help, I've tried getting him to help me. He can talk on the phone to them but neither of us know wtf these people are talking about. Whenever br is on the phone he always says something retarded, and throws a brat fit even when I'm right there trying to explain to him what he needs to say. He had gotten my check cancled before, because he kept saying we had moved already (when legally it was still a vacation) before we were able to make a proper address change, even when I was right there reminding his ass of the law, and he was arrogantly swatting me away with his hand. Hell, at right state he lost thousands of dollars because he refused to ask the secretary about the coronavirus loan forgiveness plan even though I told him every day for months. He can't even handle his own self

 delora, don't bother explaining your issues to this self righteous covert narc who pretends to be schizophrenic, find the cure for schizophrenia and then claim he is schizophrenic but still able to do all these things. have u ever interacted with a schizophrenic person lmao...it's no joke.

also don't be rude to my lena. thx

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0 votes RE: Hey BR, is there an iss...

This sounds like you and bo both need a social worker assigned to help you with things like, making sure your disability papers are filed properly and helping you access the most helpful programs for you.

 exactly. this is why i love you peach. you don't make it about you and how much better you are than them, but actually give practical advice taking into account their issues. this stuff seems like it stresses them both out and they shouldnt have to deal with it alone.

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