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How do you see me overall?

I don't, but then again I don't really get on your case either. 

 Why are you hesitant to get to know me better?

I tend to be less 1-on-1 social in the Winter. 

 Whats your actual excuse

I've seriously been dropping the ball when it comes to keeping contact with people this Winter, and each Winter before it seems to show similar themes. 

It usually leads to me apologizing to people come Springtime as I find a sudden zeal for speech. 

 Well get over it and actually talk. Apologizing doesnt do shit if you dont change.

I mean it changes come Spring. 🤷

 Why are you so scared of talking one on one? Especially with me? Do I make you uncomfortable? Are you jealous of me?

What makes you think it's fear? Isn't that more of a Fall season thing?

 What is it? Im trying to comprehend your problems, but it might be too complex for me. Regardless, just understand that you're making a stuolpid decision by shutting yourself in.

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Imagine raising a kid and not wanting to take care of him/her because iTs wInTeR!!!!!!!

Horrible parent detected.

last edit on 1/12/2021 10:10:31 PM
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Cav was this a cry for attention?

A 'notice me senpai!!' ?

This cry for attention's a campaign, he's been at me for it since Luna's. 

 No one cares about an ugly schizo's attention. You're lucky to have a small amount of acknowledgement from me.

What if TC were a pretty schizo?

What if

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 lol, I'm struggling to understand why this is offensive. Cav sees you as ugly so I'm asking..oh okay my bad

I'm kidding, I know I'm ugly.

That bandage was ripped ages ago. 

 I didn't say you were ugly, cav said that I wasn't trying to reinforce it holy fucksies get some confidence in your body 

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Cav was this a cry for attention?

A 'notice me senpai!!' ?

This cry for attention's a campaign, he's been at me for it since Luna's. 

 No one cares about an ugly schizo's attention. You're lucky to have a small amount of acknowledgement from me.

What if TC were a pretty schizo?

What if

 Posted Image

 lol, I'm struggling to understand why this is offensive. Cav sees you as ugly so I'm asking..oh okay my bad

I'm kidding, I know I'm ugly.

That bandage was ripped ages ago. 

 I didn't say you were ugly, cav said that I wasn't trying to reinforce it holy fucksies get some confidence in your body 

Mostly stating it was mock outrage over something I already know about myself. 

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Imagine raising a kid and not wanting to take care of him/her because iTs wInTeR!!!!!!!

Horrible parent detected.

I don't recall adopting you.

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Imagine raising a kid and not wanting to take care of him/her because iTs wInTeR!!!!!!!

Horrible parent detected.

I don't recall adopting you.

 You have a lack of responsibility toward your life, work ethic, and friendships. I dont think you can be trusted to raise a kid.

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How do you see me overall?

I don't, but then again I don't really get on your case either. 

 Why are you hesitant to get to know me better?

I tend to be less 1-on-1 social in the Winter. 

 Whats your actual excuse

I've seriously been dropping the ball when it comes to keeping contact with people this Winter, and each Winter before it seems to show similar themes. 

It usually leads to me apologizing to people come Springtime as I find a sudden zeal for speech. 

 Well get over it and actually talk. Apologizing doesnt do shit if you dont change.

I mean it changes come Spring. 🤷

 Why are you so scared of talking one on one? Especially with me? Do I make you uncomfortable? Are you jealous of me?

What makes you think it's fear? Isn't that more of a Fall season thing?

 What is it?

A hibernative lack of drive, a lower base of energy, and general winter blues. Even handling others around me going through with it has a way of dragging me down that much more so by proxy, especially when I'm less equipped to deal with it. 

It's like a million times easier to message people the other 3/4 the year, especially Spring and Fall. It's otherwise a major investment to delve into a 1-on-1 over what it brings out them by comparison to how they behave with an audience, and DMs follow the chat-demand for both it's speed and the expectation of expedient replies, while topic posts I can walk away from and return to later with leisure. 

Regardless, just understand that you're making a stuolpid decision by shutting yourself in.

In a costs and balances way, people tend to weigh out what they'd prefer to do based on their room for net gains. Within that, you can use what people do and don't find easier to do to gauge why they might do it off of themes. 

Has nothing I've displayed so far given you reason to believe that shutting myself in would be preferable beyond laziness? 

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last edit on 1/12/2021 10:21:03 PM
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Imagine raising a kid and not wanting to take care of him/her because iTs wInTeR!!!!!!!

Horrible parent detected.

I don't recall adopting you.

 You have a lack of responsibility toward your life, work ethic, and friendships. I dont think you can be trusted to raise a kid.

What makes you think I'm gearing myself towards raising a kid right now? 

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How do you see me overall?

I don't, but then again I don't really get on your case either. 

 Why are you hesitant to get to know me better?

I tend to be less 1-on-1 social in the Winter. 

 Whats your actual excuse

I've seriously been dropping the ball when it comes to keeping contact with people this Winter, and each Winter before it seems to show similar themes. 

It usually leads to me apologizing to people come Springtime as I find a sudden zeal for speech. 

 Well get over it and actually talk. Apologizing doesnt do shit if you dont change.

I mean it changes come Spring. 🤷

 Why are you so scared of talking one on one? Especially with me? Do I make you uncomfortable? Are you jealous of me?

What makes you think it's fear? Isn't that more of a Fall season thing?

 What is it?

A hibernative lack of drive, a lower base of energy, and general winter blues. Even handling others around me going through with it has a way of dragging me down that much more so by proxy, especially when I'm less equipped to deal with it. 

It's like a million times easier to message people the other 3/4 the year, especially Spring and Fall. It's otherwise a major investment to delve into a 1-on-1 over what it brings out them by comparison to how they behave with an audience, and DMs follow the chat-demand for both it's speed and the expectation of expedient replies, while topic posts I can walk away from and return to later with leisure. 

Regardless, just understand that you're making a stuolpid decision by shutting yourself in.

In a costs and balances way, people tend to weigh out what they'd prefer to do based on their room for net gains. Within that, you can use what people do and don't find easier to do to gauge why they might do it off of themes. 

Has nothing I've displayed so far given you reason to believe that shutting myself in would be preferable beyond laziness? 

 Well yeah, fear is the other reason besides laziness. But you denied that as well.

I personally find it far easier to talk with my friends in chat than to participate in forum drama. The kind environment is preferable to the hostile environment of this forum, so I need some of that time, rather than being hostile.

From what information I got from crow, it seems like you never get any time to unwind with friends that are kind towards you, preferringn to challenge other people all the time in dms. That sounds painful, stressful, and lacks self care. I dont like saying this, but everyone needs a safe space. (besides sjws they can get dismembered alive).

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Cavalier said:
Well yeah, fear is the other reason besides laziness. But you denied that as well.

I denied fear? Where? 

I personally find it far easier to talk with my friends in chat than to participate in forum drama. The kind environment is preferable to the hostile environment of this forum, so I need some of that time, rather than being hostile.

I meanwhile find that the permanence of the forum forces a sense of consistency, and that having an audience pushes people to have more scrutiny in their words if they aren't otherwise too pussy to speak their minds. 

From what information I got from crow, it seems like you never get any time to unwind with friends that are kind towards you
I don't have time? All I have now is time. 

Preferringn to challenge other people all the time in dms.
Wouldn't this mean I'm DMing people a lot? I'm really more active on the forum, and you aren't the only one not hearing from me in DM form right now. You aren't even the only one on here taking it personally. 

I'm getting the impression that you're reading into her words while only hearing your own preconceived conclusions. 

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last edit on 1/12/2021 10:42:16 PM
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