Based on the info Jim has provided, it seems like I’m the alpha because he gets his power from hurting people and making make him the center of attention by hating him and focusing on what he did or what he did to them. This means because I understand him and don’t hate him, even though he was mean to me, I won without even trying to. My ability to forgive people and not dwell on the bad things in life, makes me the one in control and thus, the true alpha. I’m truly THE winner.
I’ll take my prize now :)
You lost so hard that you renamed yourself Dr. Winner to cope.
I literally became a doctor.
No you didn't, you just put that in your username. It takes eight years, minimum, not an afternoon.
I’m not like you. I’m not afraid of being myself.
If this were true you would be like me, but instead what's true is that we're unalike.
You are afraid of being "yourself" to the point of not even knowing what "yourself" is, instead chasing other people to validate that lacking for you.I just keep improving, so I update my status. Some of us are capable of progress.
I don't see this as an improvement.
I did become a doctor and it only took seven years, including college. Just because you are close minded and don’t know how to become a doctor, doesn’t mean I didn’t become one. I don’t look for validation from others. If I did, I’d be with Jim still. He is very affectionate and needy and that’s not my thing. I know who I am and I do what I want. I thought we were similar in the past, but you seem to have devolved into someone who doesn’t even try to understand other people, but instead, applies their own thoughts and feelings to others and doesn’t believe there is any way that deviations can exist. I don’t know what happened to you, but you used to be more secure in who you are and didn’t need to hate on people because they might be different from you.
