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ok, that girl is a total mental, one of the worst here, but maybe she has a point. you are all smart enough and nasty enough to use your skills in the real world, but you dont, you sit here scoring points of each other in some imaginary game to make yourselves feel better.

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So if I have these, as you say, "petty desires" then why haven't I attacked anyone over it ?

You haven't? I've seen you do it, but you usually attack around the problem rather than demanding some sort of showdown.

Do we really need to talk about your "Flying Monkeys" thing as an example? 

 We could talk about that if you want. What about it ?

That was you cope-exploding over feeling denied by "the cool kids", and anyone aware of the drama at that point can easily note the timing. 

Well I was being mistreated for weeks and decided to end the connection. I thought It was best for them as well as myself, and I did it politely.

 



Rather than see the mistakes you made, you instead made it about those who hurt you and why it's all on them with a series of exaggerations and excuses where you otherwise chose to call on none of the people by name out of cowardice, rather than for their protection or any sense of civility. 

I acknowledged I did, and we had an intervention about it, we made up. But the "victim" wasn't satisfied with that, so instead I would be treated like a nigger for weeks. So whatever I apologized for was rendered obsolete. Another member felt I was too belittling for them and the rest, except 2 members, would maul me for weeks.

Now look at you, bringing up a version of the story that was shared with you, in the midst of you trying to make yourself look better than me. 

I wrote a piece about flying monkey's after that, and wrote about the phenomenon without naming names or pointing fingers, and what did I get ? I do believe I experienced the flying monkey phenomenon which is covered in psychological studies, and here we are now TC, you working on your admiration. 

 



You needed to vent your pain for catharsis after you'd felt wronged, establish for all to see how none of it's your fault so that you can feel like the victim, then not mention them by name to shield your image from looking as petty as the reality.

Before I left the group. I did say how I wish she would have come to me instead of running around to everyone else, talking about me. We've had a discussion at that time and she showed me screenshots of what they said about me. One of them tried to manipulate me by saying things about Trump, then commented about how I never responded to it so something must be wrong with me, something like that. They also had these other crazy theories about me as they proceeded to treat me like shit.

I wrote about the flying monkey thing, simply because it happened, and probably happening right now.

I also know you were instructed to monitor me. Moving on you say..... 

Since they're actually upstanding people,

You said, as you did your job.

I was "told" I was jealous of that, but really I'm not. Maybe these people have to deal with jealous people around them all the time. The day I left, she mentioned she doesn't think I do it on purpose. She was right about that.

you lack the courage to go at them over how they possess a higher spot on the pecking order,

This is perverted. Honestly, I'd rather detach from it. Like I said, I stuck around for some weeks being treated like dirt, I couldn't fix it so I did what's best.

 

so naturally you came here with your tail between your legs after you'd otherwise spent months acting above SC attendance. 

 I barely even come here.

Good job TC, you're doing well.

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So if I have these, as you say, "petty desires" then why haven't I attacked anyone over it ?

You haven't? I've seen you do it, but you usually attack around the problem rather than demanding some sort of showdown.

Do we really need to talk about your "Flying Monkeys" thing as an example? 

 We could talk about that if you want. What about it ?

That was you cope-exploding over feeling denied by "the cool kids", and anyone aware of the drama at that point can easily note the timing. 

Well I was being mistreated for weeks and decided to end the connection. I thought It was best for them as well as myself, and I did it politely.

 



Rather than see the mistakes you made, you instead made it about those who hurt you and why it's all on them with a series of exaggerations and excuses where you otherwise chose to call on none of the people by name out of cowardice, rather than for their protection or any sense of civility. 

I acknowledged I did, and we had an intervention about it, we made up. But the "victim" wasn't satisfied with that, so instead I would be treated like a nigger for weeks. So whatever I apologized for was rendered obsolete. Another member felt I was too belittling for them and the rest, except 2 members, would maul me for weeks.

Now look at you, bringing up a version of the story that was shared with you, in the midst of you trying to make yourself look better than me. 

I wrote a piece about flying monkey's after that, and wrote about the phenomenon without naming names or pointing fingers, and what did I get ? I do believe I experienced the flying monkey phenomenon which is covered in psychological studies, and here we are now TC, you working on your admiration. 

 



You needed to vent your pain for catharsis after you'd felt wronged, establish for all to see how none of it's your fault so that you can feel like the victim, then not mention them by name to shield your image from looking as petty as the reality.

Before I left the group. I did say how I wish she would have come to me instead of running around to everyone else, talking about me. We've had a discussion at that time and she showed me screenshots of what they said about me. One of them tried to manipulate me by saying things about Trump, then commented about how I never responded to it so something must be wrong with me, something like that. They also had these other crazy theories about me as they proceeded to treat me like shit.

I wrote about the flying monkey thing, simply because it happened, and probably happening right now.

I also know you were instructed to monitor me. Moving on you say..... 

Since they're actually upstanding people,

You said, as you did your job.

I was "told" I was jealous of that, but really I'm not. Maybe these people have to deal with jealous people around them all the time. The day I left, she mentioned she doesn't think I do it on purpose. She was right about that.

you lack the courage to go at them over how they possess a higher spot on the pecking order,

This is perverted. Honestly, I'd rather detach from it. Like I said, I stuck around for some weeks being treated like dirt, I couldn't fix it so I did what's best.

 

so naturally you came here with your tail between your legs after you'd otherwise spent months acting above SC attendance. 

 I barely even come here.

Good job TC, you're doing well.

 Why did you say the N word with a hard R like that?

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Cause Lena. "Nigga" is in terms of endearment, while "Nigger" isn't.

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if i was talkin to a mate id even stick an h on the end

 

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Cause Lena. "Nigga" is in terms of endearment, while "Nigger" isn't.

 I don't know you anymore

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Cause Lena. "Nigga" is in terms of endearment, while "Nigger" isn't.

 I don't know you anymore

 *Sadness*

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That was you cope-exploding over feeling denied by "the cool kids", and anyone aware of the drama at that point can easily note the timing. 

Well I was being mistreated for weeks and decided to end the connection. I thought It was best for them as well as myself, and I did it politely.

Pretty sure they kicked you out, then you came on here all "You can't fire me I quit". Your "politely" also was more of a complete refusal to acknowledge your own mistakes when they listed them to you... to the point of acting out. They couldn't even communicate the issue to you in a way you'd understand, and as you kept ramping up the drama they showed you the exit. This whole "Flying Monkeys" thing was you then choosing to use the fact that they were a group of people to claim that they're just being clickish, and that you did nothing wrong in that scenario that's otherwise out of your control and by design meant to work against you. 

You need to learn how to attribute your own errors onto the situation, rather than cooking up stories as to why characteristics of them are solely to blame. How are you supposed to improve as a person if you refuse to even see that anything's wrong? 

Rather than see the mistakes you made, you instead made it about those who hurt you and why it's all on them with a series of exaggerations and excuses where you otherwise chose to call on none of the people by name out of cowardice, rather than for their protection or any sense of civility. 

I acknowledged I did, and we had an intervention about it, we made up. But the "victim" wasn't satisfied with that, so instead I would be treated like a nigger for weeks.

Excuse me? 

So whatever I apologized for was rendered obsolete.

You didn't stop acting super weird. After said intervention you were all ramped up and blowing things out of proportion, and any attempts they'd make to correct your foolishness you took as attacks. 

Your inability to really listen to their concerns is what killed your connection with said aforementioned "cool kids". 

Another member felt I was too belittling for them and the rest, except 2 members, would maul me for weeks.

You're completely ignoring your own contributions to this through these exaggerations. They weren't mauling you by trying to help you improve your self awareness, and the only reason they hadn't been up to that point was through an ignorance of their own towards your narcissism. 

Now look at you, bringing up a version of the story that was shared with you, in the midst of you trying to make yourself look better than me. 

I'm not trying to look better than you, I'm trying to illustrate a point. 

Look at our posts so far, you're the one who keeps trying to make it like it's some sort of pecking order or dick measuring contest. These are all narratives you're using to steer yourself away from conclusions that'd amount to some level of genuine growth. 

I wrote a piece about flying monkey's after that, and wrote about the phenomenon without naming names or pointing fingers, and what did I get ? I do believe I experienced the flying monkey phenomenon which is covered in psychological studies, and here we are now TC, you working on your admiration. 

This is excuses and justifications that completely ignore the actions you did that got you into that mess in the first place. 

You don't simply refuse to look at your own impacts here, you outright deny their existence, and every time I try to show you your own history you make up more and more narratives to rebuke the truth from your sphere of understanding.

You needed to vent your pain for catharsis after you'd felt wronged, establish for all to see how none of it's your fault so that you can feel like the victim, then not mention them by name to shield your image from looking as petty as the reality.

Before I left the group. I did say how I wish she would have come to me instead of running around to everyone else, talking about me.

The aforementioned person wasn't really going around until you started acting strangely, which within that you were attempting to allude to said person "mysteriously" when you otherwise aren't that shrouded of a read. 

We've had a discussion at that time and she showed me screenshots of what they said about me.

I'm guessing this was to show you how it's your problem and not simply their group being clickish? 

Do you know how hard it is to get you to see when you make mistakes when you live within the notion that anyone with anything bad to say about you are just the sum of their flaws? 

One of them tried to manipulate me by saying things about Trump, then commented about how I never responded to it so something must be wrong with me, something like that.

...you keep it vague, likely from a lack of comprehension over what they were otherwise saying, but naturally you held onto the Trump factor. 

They also had these other crazy theories about me as they proceeded to treat me like shit.

What kinds of theories?

Maybe they aren't so crazy, simply crazy to you. 

I wrote about the flying monkey thing, simply because it happened, and probably happening right now.

It's not so "simply", it was emotional within the subtext of your impartiality aims. 

you lack the courage to go at them over how they possess a higher spot on the pecking order,

This is perverted. Honestly, I'd rather detach from it.

What people would "rather" doesn't denote the reality, and your behavior is a common tendency within low functioning narcissism (and some high functioning as well). I can note this from you and easily compare it to other similar examples we've seen from people like CS and Luna. 

Like I said, I stuck around for some weeks being treated like dirt, I couldn't fix it so I did what's best.

It wasn't enabling and back pats over your illusion being destroyed, and rather than accept something more real "you left" in the form of a hissy fit, in the form of a passive aggressive rage. 

so naturally you came here with your tail between your legs after you'd otherwise spent months acting above SC attendance. 

I barely even come here.

You keep defending your image with that every time you log on here, it's getting redundant. 

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Turncoat said:
Pretty sure they kicked you out

 

No. I left on my own. 

Particularly there is a member in there that has quite the potty mouth and being around her makes me feel like my cells are going bad.

As for others, we still talk from time to time.

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Turncoat said:
Pretty sure they kicked you out

No. I left on my own. 

That's not how it seemed. 

Particularly there is a member in there that has quite the potty mouth and being around her makes me feel like my cells are going bad.

That's just you making excuses for your own bad behavior, again. 

As for others, we still talk from time to time.

That doesn't excuse how you acted. 

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