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Why didn't you just talk to someone here if you felt lonely for conversation? Tinder seems like an odd choice to be wanting just conversation when the majority on the app use it for dick/pussy appointments. 

Why did you leave yourself open to being violated like this? 

Inviting a stranger to your home, letting them have this information on you when you've known how dangerous some men are- one of them being your ex boyfriend Shifty? 

It is a bit weird, seeing as she's stated that she's a repeat victim. I don't know about her, but myself and others who've been hit with this sort of thing don't end up just trusting that it won't happen again. 

She might be posting about it here to beat him to the news story for the sake of an alibi, seeing as at this point it'd be her word against his with her having a strategic advantage here. 

Drinking something someone else brought, that even without the implied drugging would have still left you vulnerable because duh! Alcohol

She hasn't confirmed nor denied if it actually was drugged, much like the 'comdom'. 

"Too late for a rape kit."??? Um, bro you got snapchat messages, tinder messages- do you still not have cameras set up?

She has no interest in having this investigated further while wanting to give the impression that she's done with it, all the while sharing his details with us. 

The less that's personally done by her hand, the less liable she is. 

Like this is going to come off as victim shaming I guess but, like what is wrong with you? This comes off a bit like attention seeking behavior through being a willing victim. 

Yeahhh... this isn't how I usually see rape victims talk about their history. 

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last edit on 11/12/2020 4:39:06 AM
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Crimson said: 

oh just checked my email

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that's something at least

 No questions. Just terminated. Maybe he did do it, but it's still sad that all a guy needs is to be accused and he's toast.

Inviting strangers you've met on dating apps over to a private setting for a drink is dangerous for both parties. We never go on dating apps to make friends, just partners and buddies. 

In any case you should work with Tinder, cause if that guy was smart and recorded the encounter, and your drunk self who can barely remember anything seemed fine in the heat of the moment, the situation can do a 180 on you. 

 I can always count on tony to immediately pity the male. Thanks bro 

 he is correct nonetheless

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TPG said: 
Crimson said: 

oh just checked my email

Posted Image

that's something at least

 No questions. Just terminated. Maybe he did do it, but it's still sad that all a guy needs is to be accused and he's toast.

Inviting strangers you've met on dating apps over to a private setting for a drink is dangerous for both parties. We never go on dating apps to make friends, just partners and buddies. 

In any case you should work with Tinder, cause if that guy was smart and recorded the encounter, and your drunk self who can barely remember anything seemed fine in the heat of the moment, the situation can do a 180 on you. 

 I can always count on tony to immediately pity the male. Thanks bro 

 he is correct nonetheless

What, Tinder should just take the risk of having a rapist using their app?  People get accounts deleted for a lot less than that.  They don't have the resources to investigate every case, so they're in a situation where they either have to take people's word for it, or face serious legal liability.

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It does have me wonder if they'd do the same if the rape victim's gender were flipped. 

I also wonder if people could straight up threaten people with Tinder bans if it's otherwise easy enough to get done from sheer saturation. 

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last edit on 11/12/2020 4:45:38 AM
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0 votes RE: I got date raped last n...
TPG said: 
Crimson said: 

oh just checked my email

Posted Image

that's something at least

 No questions. Just terminated. Maybe he did do it, but it's still sad that all a guy needs is to be accused and he's toast.

Inviting strangers you've met on dating apps over to a private setting for a drink is dangerous for both parties. We never go on dating apps to make friends, just partners and buddies. 

In any case you should work with Tinder, cause if that guy was smart and recorded the encounter, and your drunk self who can barely remember anything seemed fine in the heat of the moment, the situation can do a 180 on you. 

 I can always count on tony to immediately pity the male. Thanks bro 

 he is correct nonetheless

What, Tinder should just take the risk of having a rapist using their app?  People get accounts deleted for a lot less than that.  They don't have the resources to investigate every case, so they're in a situation where they either have to take people's word for it, or face serious legal liability.

tony is correct that it is sad that he can merely be accused and his account will vanish in thin air, his phone number will also not be able to make a new account on a service that is used by many, being deprived only by way of an accusation  

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TPG said: 
Crimson said: 

oh just checked my email

Posted Image

that's something at least

 No questions. Just terminated. Maybe he did do it, but it's still sad that all a guy needs is to be accused and he's toast.

Inviting strangers you've met on dating apps over to a private setting for a drink is dangerous for both parties. We never go on dating apps to make friends, just partners and buddies. 

In any case you should work with Tinder, cause if that guy was smart and recorded the encounter, and your drunk self who can barely remember anything seemed fine in the heat of the moment, the situation can do a 180 on you. 

 I can always count on tony to immediately pity the male. Thanks bro 

 he is correct nonetheless

 Tbf tinder has a lot of date rape cases, enough that they had thought of putting in a report/panic button

They'll want to act fast and have now got that email script in case it does happen. Posted Image

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0 votes RE: I got date raped last n...
TPG said: 
Crimson said: 

oh just checked my email

Posted Image

that's something at least

 No questions. Just terminated. Maybe he did do it, but it's still sad that all a guy needs is to be accused and he's toast.

Inviting strangers you've met on dating apps over to a private setting for a drink is dangerous for both parties. We never go on dating apps to make friends, just partners and buddies. 

In any case you should work with Tinder, cause if that guy was smart and recorded the encounter, and your drunk self who can barely remember anything seemed fine in the heat of the moment, the situation can do a 180 on you. 

 I can always count on tony to immediately pity the male. Thanks bro 

 he is correct nonetheless

 Tbf tinder has a lot of date rape cases, enough that they had thought of putting in a report/panic button

They'll want to act fast and have now got that email script in case it does happen. Posted Image

 that is very good, but the causal relationship should not be accused --> guilty

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While I agree with you principally TPG, I also don't otherwise see what they can do about it. 

Are they just supposed to review every single case? 

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0 votes RE: I got date raped last n...

While I agree with you principally TPG, I also don't otherwise see what they can do about it. 

Are they just supposed to review every single case? 

 ideally

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0 votes RE: I got date raped last n...
TPG said: 
TPG said: 
Crimson said: 

oh just checked my email

Posted Image

that's something at least

 No questions. Just terminated. Maybe he did do it, but it's still sad that all a guy needs is to be accused and he's toast.

Inviting strangers you've met on dating apps over to a private setting for a drink is dangerous for both parties. We never go on dating apps to make friends, just partners and buddies. 

In any case you should work with Tinder, cause if that guy was smart and recorded the encounter, and your drunk self who can barely remember anything seemed fine in the heat of the moment, the situation can do a 180 on you. 

 I can always count on tony to immediately pity the male. Thanks bro 

 he is correct nonetheless

What, Tinder should just take the risk of having a rapist using their app?  People get accounts deleted for a lot less than that.  They don't have the resources to investigate every case, so they're in a situation where they either have to take people's word for it, or face serious legal liability.

tony is correct that it is sad that he can merely be accused and his account will vanish in thin air, his phone number will also not be able to make a new account on a service that is used by many, being deprived only by way of an accusation  

I guess I see that as a trivial inevitability of being online.  Other major sites will do the same thing.  You can pretty much say whatever about any account and they don't have the manpower to check, so it goes down.  Life on the frontier. lol

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