I agree with porn fucking up your sex life if the use is excessive. If viewed at a average rate(once twice a week), supplemented with mildly active sex life, you should be fine. The only people that get fucked up by this are people who watch porn 5+days a week and havent had sex in years, even then the level of disinterest in actual sex varies by what genre/fetish they watch frequently. If it's something outlandish, yeah but if it's something that's rooted in reality such as anal sex the impact will be negligible. If anything it would increase their sex drive after awhile after assuming the real thing must be better than the porn aspect.
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Also, I've always wondered if the cuck fetish came from excessive porn use. Since I mean they are just getting a front row, live seat to watching people have sex. Not much different than watching porn, with the exclusion of it being your wife/girlfirend ofc
I used to get stuck at this bar all the time when I was younger, and there were some swingers that would go there and pick up a male third wheel. It seemed to me like what he got out of it, was seeing how lustful men would be for his woman, and his excitement at her indulging in promiscuity. I could be wrong though, I never really wanted to talk to them about it.
indulging in promiscuity huh, like a more severe slut fetish would make sense. I also wonder if there's a level of projection in cucking, as in they see themselves as the guy doing things they themselves couldnt do.
It's a warped but interesting fetish honestly. We need a cuck expert
Systematic stated: source post
I agree with porn fucking up your sex life if the use is excessive. If viewed at a average rate(once twice a week), supplemented with mildly active sex life, you should be fine. The only people that get fucked up by this are people who watch porn 5+days a week and havent had sex in years, even then the level of disinterest in actual sex varies by what genre/fetish they watch frequently. If it's something outlandish, yeah but if it's something that's rooted in reality such as anal sex the impact will be negligible.
How would you factor in a person who faps 5+ days a week and has sex regularly? I'd think that the rates would be affected by how powerful a person's libido is alongside what their body's used to.
If anything it would increase their sex drive after awhile after assuming the real thing must be better than the porn aspect.
That'd depend on how much they're jacking it. They might desire it more mentally, but physically the drive might not be as high if they're chronic.
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Flesh and blood. Scent...intelligence...then there is the 'grrrrr' factor...just want to throw you down and fuck your brains out...lol...
Yeah... While porn can desensitize the eyes, it doesn't necessarily desensitize scent and tactile sensations, nor the stimulation of their minds.
Freyja stated: source post
Can you not read?
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I once (eight or nine months ago?) said I sometimes don't read your posts in their entirety (because they are verbose, boring, creepy and often nonsensical, and to read and try to make sense of every word would be the equivalent of a part time job, and about as much fun as stacking shelves in asda).
I can't understand your not agreeing with the point Ed is making, but to actually not understand it (or pretend not to?) you must be terrifyingly dim.
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Turncoat stated: source post
Wow you're lost. You ought to try reading posts more clearly before making a fool out of yourself.
Aw diddums. Do you get so upset when people challenge you irl? Or is your status here more important to you than rl?
Can you explain specifically which posts on this thread I haven't read clearly, what evidence you have to suggest this, and in what ways I am "lost" and "making a fool" of myself? I'm afraid you're being rather vague.
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That was my exact same point to you, you absolute prime specimen of mental retardation.
Tryptamine stated: source post
You are correct; it can cause desensitization. Which I imagine you would view as "unhealthy." I remember Rass and I arguing with you that a lack of interest in having sex is not unhealthy.
I dunno dude. People get treatment for losing libido. Docs call it a symptom. Pharmaceutical companies warn against it on pills prospects as an adverse reaction and stuff.
At the end of the day, it is loss of enjoyment of smth you could otherwise enjoy. This alone is unfortunate.
I thought that way because I had an idealism (however naive) of purity at the time. This caused some problems relating to going on dates in high school. These girls had raging hormones, and after a few—usually about 3—times spent together with romantic overtones, they would subtly imply they wanted to fuck.
The thing was, I wasn't looking for sex. I was looking for something with a bit more depth.
Why not have both. Interesting, the "purity" thing. Were you raised religiously? And if purity was your thing, why were you regularly consuming porn since 8? Did that feel dirty to you?
But I'm not even a "porn addict." I actually have to masturbate, because if I don't, after a while I will literally start blowing loads at random.
Why not have the real sex though? For that same reason. Why would masturbation be better.
Do I feel sexual arousal in normal interpersonal situations? Sure. It's just that this arousal is overridden by my interest in chemistry. But I don't feel the need to force this chemistry to exist. It seems unimportant to me, and I don't see why I should feel any way otherwise.
Well as long as you're happy, all that matters I guess. To each their own.