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Anal Thrusters stated: source post

I told you what was the point of apologising if you didnt mean it and you were going to do it again? Did you expect me not to be bitchy? You brought something up that you know was hurtful to me and tried to make a joke of it.

your comment was unnecessary and now you're trying to say "we're" particularly disgusting for "having used blancs past against her" when you've done the exact same.

He apologized, that makes it okay and makes him better than those he insults for doing the same thing, no longer as disgusting as they are. 
 

Its not the first time you've done it either

He'll need evidence if he is to believe that. 
 

I mean, I guess this means you and xena are a pair then. Should I lump you two together?

Seconded. 

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You right out told me you didn't accept my apology the second I gave it to you. I remember it very well.

The "exact same" is bullshit. Again, it boils down to you not seeing differences. If it was the EXACT same thing, I assume you felt terrible and apologized for it? And made sure Blanc accepted your apology, ofc.

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Xena is WFE.

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I told you why I didn't accept it. Did you expect me to to just be okay with it? You know it hurt me and for you to say "suck dick like you were taught." when taught implies one a teacher and the other a student. Really you wanted me to be overjoyed that you apologized? It was rape. It happened for a long time. Never once was I a willing participant and you just watered it down to "learning experience" to make a fucking jab over some petty thing we were disagreeing on. 

We were sharing experiences and hers didn't hold water, we told her that. We told her it felt like she was stalling to make something up on the spot and it felt fucking awful because we were sharing things and she was, it felt like, trolling us.  She's welcome to explain and argue she wasn't if she'd like but the feeling that she was trolling was mutual, it wasn't something that one person said and the rest followed.

No, I would not force her to accept any apology- but I would damn well want to talk about what I did and and have her help me understand why what i did hurt her as well as some fucking boundaries and try to not do it again. You know, communication.

 

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Turncoat stated: source post

...so it's more about how you handled it, not what you did? 

You lost me. I have been talking about the whole incident all this time.

 

I'm not "good", but at least I know that and don't try to make it out like I am. You... kinda do. 

So wait. If you are guilty of a behavior but admit to it, it's somehow better? Why are you putting down the meaning of an apology then? Simply admitting you are flawed is a shitty cop-out. You just say: hey that's me I admit it, and think it's such a big accomplishment and that it makes you a better person.

I am aware of my flaws. I don't have any more double-standards more than the average guy here. I am very consistent. What a bunch of you hate on me for is that I often speak my mind against your acts. Instead of admitting to it, the reaction is to say: "you're the same Ed!". This, often when the similarities are extremely thin and far fetched, and even after I apologized for it as it was in this case.

I don't know about you, but if I see someone repeatedly doing the same behavior even after apologizing for it... I'm not likely to take said apology very seriously. 

That's just you.

 

 

You sometimes show ideatic slipping similar to MrOmega.

He's truly next tier. While I did make that comparison myself a while ago, I don't think I'll ever be on his level. 

Yes you are far from that. Maybe you understand then how I feel when you are drawing parallels between my behavior and others here.

I'm mostly drawing parallels between your current self and past self. At most for comparison I'm saying that it's crazy to think that "Sorry" is some sort of magical cure-all when the behaviors keep happening, and that it's weird that you'd hold yourself as if you're better than them for saying it before acting on it again in the future. 

My isolated incident with Alena is not enough for you to generalize. Can you even see why this treatment feels an unfair excuse to have a go at me? Are you able to put yourself in my place, and the crap I am given here for that incident, or are you too caught into your circular arguments? Minor incident I admit was wrong and apologized for vs repeated abusive behavior involving Alena's and just about anyone's past here, and I get so much attention for it? Spare me the "double standard".

 

It's not just incidents, it's a legitimate pattern. 

...seriously? Why do you think others are on the same train, some sort of mass propaganda conspiracy? 

Yes, running your mouth without enough concrete examples casts that light on you.

You're saying that to reduce their individual messages, you're saying it to make them less loud. They aren't like "We have no voice, so we must become one voice to be heard", you're like "They're saying the same things at me, so they must be working together".

They are working together, ofc. It is a good defense here, to have a pack. You can spread any shitty message you want and people will take it for granted if you get 5 more people to do it with you.

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Edvard stated: source post

 

Turncoat stated: source post

...so it's more about how you handled it, not what you did? 

You lost me. I have been talking about the whole incident all this time.

 

I'm not "good", but at least I know that and don't try to make it out like I am. You... kinda do. 

So wait. If you are guilty of a behavior but admit to it, it's somehow better? Why are you putting down the meaning of an apology then? Simply admitting you are flawed is a shitty cop-out. You just say: hey that's me I admit it, and think it's such a big accomplishment and that it makes you a better person.

I am aware of my flaws. I don't have any more double-standards more than the average guy here. I am very consistent. What a bunch of you hate on me for is that I often speak my mind against your acts. Instead of admitting to it, the reaction is to say: "you're the same Ed!". This, often when the similarities are extremely thin and far fetched, and even after I apologized for it as it was in this case.

I don't know about you, but if I see someone repeatedly doing the same behavior even after apologizing for it... I'm not likely to take said apology very seriously. 

That's just you.

 

 

You sometimes show ideatic slipping similar to MrOmega.

He's truly next tier. While I did make that comparison myself a while ago, I don't think I'll ever be on his level. 

Yes you are far from that. Maybe you understand then how I feel when you are drawing parallels between my behavior and others here.

I'm mostly drawing parallels between your current self and past self. At most for comparison I'm saying that it's crazy to think that "Sorry" is some sort of magical cure-all when the behaviors keep happening, and that it's weird that you'd hold yourself as if you're better than them for saying it before acting on it again in the future. 

My isolated incident with Alena is not enough for you to generalize. Can you even see why this treatment feels an unfair excuse to have a go at me? Are you able to put yourself in my place, and the crap I am given here for that incident, or are you too caught into your circular arguments? Minor incident I admit was wrong and apologized for vs repeated abusive behavior involving Alena's and just about anyone's past here, and I get so much attention for it? Spare me the "double standard".

 

It's not just incidents, it's a legitimate pattern. 

...seriously? Why do you think others are on the same train, some sort of mass propaganda conspiracy? 

Yes, running your mouth without enough concrete examples casts that light on you.

You're saying that to reduce their individual messages, you're saying it to make them less loud. They aren't like "We have no voice, so we must become one voice to be heard", you're like "They're saying the same things at me, so they must be working together".

They are working together, ofc. It is a good defense here, to have a pack. You can spread any shitty message you want and people will take it for granted if you get 5 more people to do it with you.

 

There is no "working together" going on. That we happen to have opinions that are similar doesn't mean that we are working together.  There is no clique working to spread what ever propaganda it is you're talking about. Are you serious? Wtf I feel like I'm talking to xena.

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What motivates you to be so sensitive when one of you is attacked? It can't be a coincidence you have all listed each other in your  top 5 favorites. When one of you jumps to defend another, that is called working together, even if you are right about it.

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Spatial Mind stated: source post

 

A sexy martial artist hotshot who claims to be hot shit and well off and must never reveal his identity. And has cyber sex with illegal 17 year old.

Real trusty.

First of all I'm 18, get your facts straight. Second, I don't recall cybering Eddie, get your facts straight. And third, even if I did it would be none of your business since we are both adults.
You seem jealous, are you by any chance related to WW3? :)

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Niniela stated: source post

 

Spatial Mind stated: source post

 

A sexy martial artist hotshot who claims to be hot shit and well off and must never reveal his identity. And has cyber sex with illegal 17 year old.

Real trusty.

First of all I'm 18, get your facts straight. Second, I don't recall cybering Eddie, get your facts straight. And third, even if I did it would be none of your business since we are both adults.
You seem jealous, are you by any chance related to WW3? :)

 

 

Funny thing about this. I never even had to mention who you were and here you are. 

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