There is nothing going on, that's why I was curious about outside perspectives. It was in fact the first thing I asked for. But seeing as how you interpret that as me "dancing around the question," when numerous times I've asked you to explain yourself, it doesn't seem like you have any insight at all, other than a "personality shift," which I've not denied.
The status of my life is fine. People change. If I were looking for issues that I could disprove for some reason, I would not have agreed with Haart when she was spot-on. There is no avoidance (remember, I asked for elaboration?). And what an interesting perspective you have.