OK. That makes a lot more sense to me. I can understand your viewpoint much better, and have had a similar experience with a couple of other forum members. I can't blame you for not trusting. I wouldn't either if that was my experience of them.
Xena stated: source post
Jealous of what? That somebody I barely know on a forum full of idiots trusts somebody I thoroughly dislike?
This is gold.
Xena stated: source post
Not insulted and not sensitive.
Xena stated: source post
I said I'm not insulted.
About that...
Systematic stated: source post
I hardly talk to you enough for any of these insults to be used twice, let alone be considered repetitive.
Learn to read more carefully and these mistakes of yours can be avoided.
Also, lumping him in with your "everyone else" category isn't really fair to him.
Xena stated: source post
While I recognize his intelligence and I (silently) recognize the things he is right about, he's Dead. Wrong. about me more than twice as often as he's right.
When it comes to you I'm typically aiming for a response.
I love that I can say this and it won't spoil anything.
His opinion of me is deeply and irrepairably flawed. I don't trust anybody who believes those things about me, or even pretends to believe them.
Do you need a certain level of personal validation to gauge a person's trust?
I guess it makes sense, but it took your way of... expressing it for me to really think about it.