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lolwut?
No not really. He looks ok... and us being in the same country is convenient, but no.
I'm not interested in Jack.
;)
Xena stated: source post
Please tell me sugar's the one who's being creepy this time. Please tell me you are not planning on letting that stupidly tall douchebag manwhore do disgusting things with your naked body.
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lol Wtf? Cad is not a love interest of mine. He offered to do a psych eval thread with me after you declined one. Inquiries about attachment styles and relationships are normal during evals. How an individual relates to, views, and interacts with others is important. Humans are pack animals and disorders are often diagnosed and defined by social dysfunction.
Xena stated: source post
lolwut?
No not really. He looks ok... and us being in the same country is convenient, but no.
I'm not interested in Jack.
I'd be more than happy to explore this in another thread.
Can you elaborate more on what you mean by "invest time and energy in order to get them where I want them"?
You stated that you are drawn to people with "values such as; intelligence, drive, ambition, audacity, ruthlessness and meme-appreciation". Are these values that you see in yourself?
In what would people who don't express these values bring you down?
It seems that friendships with both males and females have a tendency to become intense at a point, though as you stated, in different ways. Can you describe the differences between the two?
Did you often find familial relationships moving between cold and intense, whether with you or between others in your environment while growing up?
I wonder if you would elaborate more on your answer here.
" Do you feel men and women require different things to be satisfied with relationships?
Women tend to be more interested in romances and following that my long term friendships with many of them have ended after a brief but intense romance. Many of my male relationships have also been intense to the degree where it was almost sexual but in a very different way. "
2. My family and me are mostly close. I take care of and make sure that one of my sisters makes the right decisions in life by sponsoring her studies and making sure her grades and priorities are in order. My parents are not exactly typical, my dad was extremely driven and wanted to make sure that I had everything I needed to succeed even if that came at times at the expensive of my free time or short term goals. By now he knows that I have my priorities straight in life and has taken more of a hands off approach although he has a very low tolerance for failure or disappointment. We have family meetings every so often and are on good terms.
3. I have been through this many times, I grew up in many different countries, born in Sweden, spent my early childhood in the states, moved around Asia, went to college in the states and subsequently worked in NYC for a while.