PwrPro stated: source post
This thread leads me to believe that VonCherp could be Cads alt.
Giving Cad a way to tell a story without being asked. /shrug
I assure you I am not a Cad alt. I am Cricket.
The stories of others can be fascinating and I am interested to hear Cad's.
VonChirp stated: source post
As the title states, the purpose of this thread is to take a glance inside the mind of SC' s own Meme Lord, Cad. Please keep unrelated arguments to a minimum. (We all know that they're going to happen, but let's not turn this in to a rehashing of a two year long dispute that has nothing to do with the topic at hand.)
at times you seem positively lovely, but at others incredibly dumb. do you get taken advantage of often? or ever?
In what ways were your parents cold?
At least compared to other parents, my mom was normal I guess, with the typical lovey dovey stuff (not something I respond very well toward or feel a need to have). My dad however was not emotional at all which for me was never really a problem however I really noticed this when it came to my sister, she was someone who was in need of support and a constant need to feel loved. My dad was never able to really provide that to her, or at least show that side of him.
Was there a lack of affection in general?
Not really my dad came from a dirt poor background and had a alcoholic father who left him at a very young age so I suspect he was just emotionally stunted in that respect. His way of show affection was setting me up for success even though it meant being stern or from the eyes of a child being "the bad guy".
Do you find yourself acting in ways similar to what you observed with your father?
To some degree, I admire the fact that he was willing to sacrifice the short term pain of not being liked for the long term benefit of setting his children up for success. In that sense I am willing to give harsh advice and when it comes to people I have a lot of influence over use that influence to make them do things that will benefit them in the long term while they might not see it themselves. Other than that I'm a controlling person which most people already know by now.
Are you often very rigid in your planning and control of your environment?
Not at all, especially after having worked in high pace environments. The value of a plan is not in the plan itself but the desired outcomes, planning is about finding a way to achieve those outcomes and allocating resources towards them. The quote "planning is invaluable plans are useless" is especially true for dynamic environments. However if someone is for no good reason (being lazy or not being analytical) deviating from a plan that achieves these outcomes in the best possible way I do tend to have a problem with that. I don't like to accommodate or promote personality traits I don't support of.
Sugar stated: source post
VonChirp stated: source post
As the title states, the purpose of this thread is to take a glance inside the mind of SC' s own Meme Lord, Cad. Please keep unrelated arguments to a minimum. (We all know that they're going to happen, but let's not turn this in to a rehashing of a two year long dispute that has nothing to do with the topic at hand.)
at times you seem positively lovely, but at others incredibly dumb. do you get taken advantage of often? or ever?
Rarely, probably because I state my expectations upon initiating an endeavor. I'm more than happy to discuss this, and anything else about myself, outside of this specific thread which is dedicated to the exploration of Cad.
eh, you weren't so willing last time i started questioning you..how come you keep applying these weird rules? we're not in your classroom now you know. the reason i said 'incredibly dumb' is because you were so quick to be the man in my avatar over someone that starts half of the thread derails herself.
now i adore cad, but what makes you think i give a single shit about your thread keeping on topic? you already have your gross thread for your bf, your skype group where you kick anyone out that disagrees with you or 'starts trouble'..where the fuck do you think you are? you think everyone here wants to sit down while you give us rules and homework and want us to respect your cringey fawning over internet love for like the 4th time since you've been here?
Can you describe your current attachment style?
Not too sure about this one. I tend to allow for semi-intimate relationships from the people I choose to be interesting or worthy of my time. If I'm interested in someone (irl) I tend invest time and energy in order to get them where I want them, romantically or as a loyal friend.
What do you feel you require from others with whom you form relationships, both platonic and romantic?
I'm pretty accommodating towards most and generally take an interest in people who differentiate from the norm. However there are certain values such as; intelligence, drive, ambition, audacity, ruthlessness and meme-appreciation which I know I am drawn towards. Without these characteristics the people around me would bring me down, I want someone who operates at my level professionally and privately.
I require loyalty (towards me) and integrity (when interacting with me) from the people I'm interested in.
Do you feel men and women require different things to be satisfied with relationships?
Women tend to be more interested in romances and following that my long term friendships with many of them have ended after a brief but intense romance. Many of my male relationships have also been intense to the degree where it was almost sexual but in a very different way.
VonChirp stated: source post
Can you describe your current attachment style?
What do you feel you require from others with whom you form relationships, both platonic and romantic?
Do you feel men and women require different things to be satisfied with relationships?
0_o
" you think everyone here wants to sit down while you give us rules and homework and want us to respect your cringey fawning over internet love for like the 4th time since you've been here?"
Please tell me sugar's the one who's being creepy this time. Please tell me you are not planning on letting that stupidly tall douchebag manwhore do disgusting things with your naked body.
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