Buttered Toast stated: source post
i dont like those "rules" things
Meh...
Astamiss stated: source post
i dont like those "rules" things
Eh...
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Cricket stated: source post
DNJACK stated: source post
i dont like those "rules" things
OMG I don't know why that turns me on but it does
Would it have if someone else said it..?
Apparently does not have the same effect. I've probably reached a point where DNJACK could trip over the cat and I'd shout "Fuck me!"
It's okay guys I don't feel threatened by ana wanting to help my dog.
At most I would see it as an insult against my mother. I made the insult first so she is going off my explanations. I just want to point out I am not offended. I can see it might seem a bit aggressive in light of experiences. It may appear as though she wants my dog and to shame me. In the statement she said she would let me visit. It means she would not want to shame me. In the past there was some bickering between us. I does not mean it can never change and there can never be bonding. I would prefer if bonding attempts are not picked apart to help form a better future.
If every time she tries to bond or at least be more welcoming and she is second guessed then it would feel pointless to even try to bond. It makes it harder to create a better future. I thank you for looking out for me ED and maybe it appears or even was slightly diminishing. I do not see it that way because I see progress to a bright future. I think progress is a good word here because relationships do not tend to change overnight.
In order to make a better future the past experiences must be forgiven and the future progressive experiences welcomed. In truth me and her barely know each other so I would like to say most of our interactions are more grey than black and white. It is more neutral until we actually learn more about each other and discover each other for who we are as a person. In neutrality or the grey area it can lean side to side until the relationship fully develops and blooms into the true form.
"If not, it's someone too cowardly to confront me under their main account, so that kinda renders what he/she says insignificant."
Yes, because posting on the same account for multiple years and being too scared to mention the weather or give something as simple as a voice recording is very commendable. I'm terribly sorry that this account isn't deemed prestigious enough to matter in your eyes.
ThenFuckit stated: source post
It is simple, just do what you want to be done to you.
It is meaningless, because the rule doesn't care if the other party will do the same.
Not meaningless. Principle of Reciprocity. Expectations in interactions. ( aware or unaware of them as the case may be) As ever, dependent on the situation and context. It's not black and white.
And it makes no sense, because there is no reason to do this just because. It only limits what you can do for no reason. And thats illogical.
It only limits, when you choose to allow it to do so, you know that as well as I do. ( keep in mind, you will be judged as others similarly judge based on their own moral/ethical codes of conduct ) So, you are the limiting factor. Your choices. And you stated in another post a fair observation that was based on the Golden rule( implicitly) about expectations. Those really are the fly in the ointment of existence.
God doesn't exist and as such, i can chose my own morality and make my own decisions based on my own subjective perspective. And as such i can decide what someone deserves, from my point of view. Which is the best point of view you will have.
...okay...Best point of view? Well, I can see that based on a self centric perspective and one that I share similar to your own. However. at the same time, that basis often takes into account the other ( which remains based on multiple factors ).
I apply the "Do Unto Others As they deserve" and it carries much better effect. Because its not blind to characteristics of the other person.
Mmhmmm....yes. I prefer the simple solution myself. When the FACTS are present. Otherwise, it is similarly deranged. At the same time. the Evidence. But the evidence can lie as well. It can be manufactured. Then what? And you know what? thenfuckit. I totally agree. However, I'd rather not be the one that takes the bullet. Not on your life.
also i forgot to post this:
http://zapkolik.vod.cubecdn.net/files/2/2/6/cccfeb99076735827af99eb789b1df96.mp4