S'all good. It does make me uncomfortable, but never to conniptions. I just get the instinct to retreat, feel trapped. It's just heightened annoyance, really.
That seems a part of the difficulty: the impersonal nature of the responses and evaluations. Being frank about all this stuff often raises the hackles of the other, as though there is some emotional intent or personal judgment being imparted. Then, when the reverse happens and I don't take a thing personally where they think I should, my complacency rubs people the wrong way sometimes. It's probably the thing I find difficult to cognize properly, while still recognizing it and I am usually able to act somewhat appropriately.
Of course, in work, I get a lot of personal information and all the social matrix of the workplace. It's very easy for me to retain confidentiality, since I treat the secrets or confessions as "objects" of a sort. It's completely of little value to me and no way it necessarily has any impact on my judgment aside from the practices and strictures of the position and field. Anyway, I went on a tangent again.