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 I was hot for a 33 year old. Better lock me up lol

You wank to cartoons of hs age girls getting dismembered and snuffed.

You have NO  right to criticize anybody else's sexual tastes.

Necrophiliac :P

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Anal Rage stated: source post

Hahah, okay so let's start over: 

Alan, in my opinion, was a emotional manipulator that tantrumed when you called him out on it. 

Happy? So you're welcomed to your opinion, there's mine. When you go off telling people "No,You mean..." Its really annoying and hard to take seriously because you don't even want to see the other persons point of view. You weren't present in the conversation Alan and I had. He presented himself differently to me than how he presented himself to you. 

My mistake was saying 'actually' and trying to invalidate your opinion of him. I see that, my bad and sincerest apologies.

So, I still maintain that he was an emotional manipulator that threw a fit when I called him out on it.

Yes! I love this form of communication. This is how people learn to be more effective. Awareness of your words and how they change meaning. How they shape perspectives. Learning to put yourself in another's place and realising why you might be hitting a wall. 

This form of communication is not easy to master at first. It's hard on the ego. The ego wants to keep its prejudices and preconceived notions. The ego wants to believe it sees everything as it really is, instead of giving to the belief that all perception is, is the juice that comes out the other end, after the fruit has been pulverized and filtered out. You don't end up with anything whole anymore. 

I hope you keep practicing this form of communication. :)

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This whole post is exactly what a pedo-politician would post to try clear his name. 

XD why did you feel the need to post all this if I was such crap at convincing others about you being a pedo?

The lady doth protest too much, methinks~ :P

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Who wouldn't protest an accusation like that? It's the worst possible thing to be accused of imo. Even Hitler would probably get his feelings hurt.

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Hahah, okay so let's start over: 

Alan, in my opinion, was a emotional manipulator that tantrumed when you called him out on it. 

Happy? So you're welcomed to your opinion, there's mine. When you go off telling people "No,You mean..." Its really annoying and hard to take seriously because you don't even want to see the other persons point of view. You weren't present in the conversation Alan and I had. He presented himself differently to me than how he presented himself to you. 

My mistake was saying 'actually' and trying to invalidate your opinion of him. I see that, my bad and sincerest apologies.

So, I still maintain that he was an emotional manipulator that threw a fit when I called him out on it.

 

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I giggled

 

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Ok. You're entitled to your opinion.

But I'm always tempted to split hairs when an opinion comes down to a few defining words that appear to be used incorrectly.

I suspect that "emotional manipulator" and "throwing a fit" are very different things in my view, compared to the way you perceive them.

 

It's a moot point, I guess. Those terms are highly subjective anyway.

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Would you be willing to go through rehab for substance abuse at any point?

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Unlikely. I don't need a hugbox to understand why I do what I do or its consequences, nor a shoulder to cry on about it all.

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Are you one of those DIY people? Self-help all the way?

Do you think you'll ever give it up? Or do you see substance abuse always being a part of your life?

 

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