Syst said that with Nina in mind. Now you're using Nina to prove Syst's point. You were just tugging at each other's cocks.
I pick and choose the people I like here, they are my choices. Almost always it's me who makes the first move approaching someone, speak my mind, poke and prod, and steer the course of my relationship with that person. My years-long history here proves I am not the passive piece. I will sacrifice "hug groups" if I feel like it, even if I know they will give me trouble and opposition around here.
Edit: Crow this is your answer too.