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I dont know if thats something lots of people do, I'm only able to answer for myself. I could say that different people will have different reactions to arguments, and they can also have different reactions to arguments depending on who they are arguing with.

For Example-Crying after an argument:

If someone is arguing with someone close to them(emotional and relationship-wise) they might feel frustrated after arguing, and that may cause them to cry. Or they might feel sad or hurt and that may cause them to cry.

If that ↑ same person is arguing with a stranger, they might be less likely to cry because there is no emotion bond and may not even be all that affected by the exchange.

So, some may cry and others may not. Again, I am only able to speak for myself.

For me, when arguing with someone close to me, I sometimes end up crying way long afterwards because I'm not a confrontational person, and I tend to shut down almost immediately if I feel there's any sort of aggressive or accusatory tone, or that its somehow escalating- I absolutely stop talking about whatever it is the other person wants to argue about and my go to response is "Okay." and freezing. Sometimes I space out but that hasn't happened for awhile.

 I cry afterwards because I'm frustrated at myself, then angry at myself and then guilty for shutting down. It might be a control thing or something. 

everytime i remember i won't have a trap loli waifu to teach adult things and cuddle i burst in treats tbh

"For me, when arguing with someone close to me, I sometimes end up crying way long afterwards because I'm not a confrontational person, and I tend to shut down almost immediately if I feel there's any sort of aggressive or accusatory tone, or that its somehow escalating- I absolutely stop talking about whatever it is the other person wants to argue about and my go to response is "Okay." and freezing"

This only applies to your arguments with people you're close to, right?

(I find you extremely  confrontational.)

"

(I find you extremely  confrontational.)

How so?"

Should I post links to all of our debates? You spend a lot of time arguing with strangers.

This only applies to your arguments with people you're close to, right?

Yep.

(I find you extremely  confrontational.)

How so?

lol. You're splitting hairs and turning my observation into a confrontation right now.

I enjoy arguing, too. Nothing wrong with that.

I'd prefer if you just tell me how/why you find me extremely confrontational, but you're welcomed to link whatever you like if you're not able to explain.

Lots of people erm- argue with internet strangers. Different beliefs, different ways of looking at certain things, morals, ect... I don't think its confrontational to want to discuss those things and perhaps find something you do agree on. I can even be healthy as it can give you a different perspective.

I said: 

I'd prefer if you just tell me how/why you find me extremely confrontational, but you're welcomed to link whatever you like if you're not able to explain 

It was in response to this:

 "Should I post links to all of our debates?"

And for this bit;

 "You spend a lot of time arguing with strangers."

 I explained; "Lots of people erm- argue with internet strangers. Different beliefs, different ways of looking at certain things, morals, ect... I don't think its confrontational to want to discuss those things and perhaps find something you do agree on. I[t] can even be healthy as it can give you a different perspective."

- you said you find me to be extremely confrontational, I asked how so- as in could you explain how you find me extremely confrontational.

Instead of saying how or why, you offered to post links instead of just typing out certain things I do that seem confrontational to you. 

if you are not able to explain, then you may post links. 

"I'd prefer if you just tell me how/why you find me extremely confrontational, but you're welcomed to link whatever you like if you're not able to explain."

Why would I not be able to explain?

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No...you asked a question and I explained my answer.

Are you...not able to explain after all? 

I don't think I ever said there was anything wrong with arguing, nor have I said that I enjoy arguing. I think perhaps you've mistaken my curiosity for vehemence.

You're still arguing. Contradicting (saying no) = arguing. 

There's not really anything to argue about right now, and you're still arguing.

Arguing about nothing = confrontational.

(unless you just really really enjoy discussions about semantics and sentence deconstruction.)

No, I don't see any vehemence in your posts right now.

Confrontational is not necessarily emotional.