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So you wouldn't apologize to him for damaging his arm so badly? 

You wouldn't say "I apologize for hurling glassware at you and basically maiming you, you see I found it odd that you changed my daughters diapers without my permission and when she said her 'shnoo' hurt, I assumed the worst. I reacted and didn't give you a chance to explain. Instead I threw glassware at you, and cursed you out in your house. In the house you let me sleep in with my child. I am sorry and deeply regret my past actions."???

Nah you just wanna say, "yeah I maimed ya, BUT because I maimed you cps was on my ass for fourteen years and then when I wouldn't give up my kid for psychosurgery, became homeless. I'm not gonna apologize to you innocent man-person, karma has ass fucked me enough that I guess we're even. Also 'sorry' is for suckers.

IM GAAAAAAAAAAAAY

" in the context you used the term."

I used the term in a positive, life affirming context. You are the one who tried to throw all that negativity and powertripping on to the remark.

You. Not me.

"when i asked if you would still maintain that position, 'that position' refers to your assertion that this was a positive learning experience, even after stating she only remembers it because of broken glass and cops. "

My daughter and I had a lovely chat the day we discussed how moronic the people on SC are when they're trying to get a reaction out of somebody. What she learned was that mom will always protect her from the nastiness in the world.

Sowwy if you didn't have that kind of bond with your family. But you're not taking anything away from me or my daughter by doing this. She's a lovely young woman and we care for each other in a way you PDs will never understand bc of your  mental handicaps.

And let me remind our audience once more that my kids are 16 and 23 years old. My son is in highschool and my daughter is engaged to a good man from a lovely family. We're all doing just fine.

It's not blocked out, you silly manchild.

We've discussed it 4 times since it happened.

How much do you remember from the 6 month period before your 3rd birthday? Does that mean you're traumatized?

I certainly don't remember much from then. Most people don't. Look it up.

If she were 8 or even 6 when it happened, and said she didn't remember, I might be worried.

But she was 2.

Duh.

Such a concern troll. lol

Your argument, as usual, is almost but not quite valid. If she remembered nothing then you would have a valid point.

She does remember some parts of it though, that is exceptional. Something must have been exciting or shocking for her to remember the situation at age two. Her partial memory alone is a good hint; the abrupt disconnect from the otherwise vivid memory is a clear indicator of what the traumatic part was.

No need to conjecture a questionable cover story on the spot. It's just an anecdote that you seem to have not considered, thought you might derive some insight from it. Lets leave it at that, it's an emotionally charged topic that'll go nowhere.

Instead lets come back to the original question:

> "So just to confirm, you are confident that you never said your daughter had 'learned a lesson' with regard to your misunderstanding that led to you mangling your roomie? (you know the one where you thought she said he touched her)."

To which you responded "Absolutely". Sugar also asked:

> "You are also confident in dismissing me instantly as a liar, rather than consider you may have said that at some point?"

You beat around the bush on this topic and gave a very murky response... That's ok, basic logic shows that since you "absolutely confidently" believe your stance on the topic, you will dismiss what she says about it without considering it, by definition. So that's logically solid even if you try to dispute that we literally saw you call her a liar immediately in chat.

With that, we have both questions answered: "Yes."

A more interesting query emerges from all of this though: Is your confidence delusional?

> "She didn't know what I was asking her. She was too young. She only remembers the incident bc of the broken glass... cops, ambulance, etc. I guess she learned a lesson that day about saying yes without hearing the question."

Your "absolute" confidence in the objectively false is confirmed, proving objectively our final query: Yes, you were delusional.

No big deal... It's normal for humans to be deluded about a memory, especially after a long time and especially emotional ones.

Now that I think of it, I'm pretty sure I tucked her away in her playpen (in her room) before I started throwing the dinnerware around.

Throwing dinnerware is not smthg I would do with a toddler anywhere within 10 feet of the flying objects.

She doesn't remember bc she didn't see.

She's also never mentioned being in her room during the incident. And I'm pretty sure there was never anything traumatic in there.

So there goes your hypothesis. You need to read some more lifespan development theory, kid.

> "She was not traumatized by those fragments of memory. It could have been a cooking accident for all she knows or cares 21 years after the incident."

Of course she was not traumatized by those fragments of memory, she was traumatized by the part she blocked out. Hence her blocking it out but still remembering the adjacent time period...

Or I may have been lying about everything from the get-go.

It's normal for people to talk out their asses when they're on an unmoderated internet forum. XD

Btw, my sexual memories are the only ones that still have an emotional impact after 21 years.

Other memories tend to fade over time.

Especially after somebody sees fit to remind me of a particular memory...

Over and over and over again.  It becomes quite monotonous. Like hearing the same Justin Bieber song 5x/ day for 2 years.

That is the act of a delusional person right there. Following somebody around repeating the same 5 lines of nonsense for all those months or years, trying to get a reaction.

Let me repeat once more for the record: I owe these people nothing. Not a reaction. Not their  entertainment.

I certainly don't owe them the truth. XD