So what about my not dying that night has you think that the motivation was a bid for attention? Just that I survived?
If I don't want to answer something, I'll say so. That nonsense with Sugar was because I don't trust Sugar. That's all.
I was curious as to your reason, because I suspected your question may have arisen from a miscommunication. And I was partially right. I wasn't criticizing her parents efforts. I was explaining to Xena that receiving something you never asked for is not selfish.
Also I'm not opposed to therapy. You may be thinking of my stance on psychiatry. Problem is, Sin would have to find a therapist more observant than she is introspective. She may not be terribly self-aware, but she's smart and there are a lot of stupid therapists out there. It would be a challenge to find a therapist that would be worth her time.
If I had a child like Sin (which is actually something I've thought about, considering my genetics), I would hope that I'd have a better relationship with her, from the start. But let's say for some reason I don't. I suppose I would focus first on trying to build one. I would try to encourage communication in a way that doesn't make her feel judged or make her fear potential consequences. I don't think the iron fist approach is helpful with most mentally ill children. It just creates more barriers and problems. I would try to get her to talk to me about what's going on, by offering suggestions, rather than ultimatums. She's unlikely to ever be open with her parents if she fears that her honesty will have serious consequences. I would try to take her thoughts and feelings seriously. I wouldn't talk down to her, instead I'd discuss with her what she feels is wrong with her life, and brainstorm potential solutions. If I thought something might help and she didn't agree, I'd explain my reasoning, instead of forcing her to go along with it. And I wouldn't push her to be something she's not. I'd try to help her be functional within the range of her own personality and quirks. I'd try to make it clear that I'm not the enemy. I think Sin is very alone. She may have people around her who care, but that doesn't help her if there's no real communication. To Sin, their attempts at helping are nothing but forceful meddling that complicates her life even further. As for the aforementioned potential solutions, I couldn't say. I don't know enough about Sin, her circumstances, or her perspectives, to offer solutions. And apparently neither do her parents. So they turn to doctors instead, who also don't really know Sin. Nothing is going to be achieved without communication.
What's the obsession with relationships between people here Tony. Is it because you're unloveable and lonely? Not sure if this is your idea of baiting and trolling Turn and Crow or you actually believe the crap you're saying, but either way it goes to show again you're struggling in the brains department.
I even explained in the post, but alright. I asked both you and Turn, because you both know depression first hand, seem to have a "don't give therapy to the kid" approach, and you criticized sin's parents efforts.
If you don't want to answer, just say so and let's avoid the whole evasive mess you had with Sugar at some point. I'd really like to know your answer though.
