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by TheSocio

Rejected, Resentful, Predatory, Intimate, and Incompetent. Which type of stalker were you?

 

How many victims have you stalked and what was the reason for doing so? I read your other thread and from what I gained you had a friend who you had things in common with and some nasty rumor went around about you so they no longer were close with you. Was there more to it than that or that was reason enough? Also, mind sharing the rumor that was totally definitely not true not-uh whatsoever? 

 

What are the negative effects your stalking had on your life? I'm sure there are plenty.

Your line of questioning sounded eerily similar to Hannibal lector. 

• Intimate 
• That friend and my target are one and the same, there will only be one target.
• Stalking has left me with scraps of a social life. It consumes so much time and energy, I know it's drastically changed my personality, demeanor and perspective. All in all nothing negative came out publicly, I kept everything under wraps. it's hard to say how much damage has actually been done because I'm just now starting to recover. 

The lies that were fed to her and her family are the only thing I don't feel comfortable talking about. It has no place here.

I'm certain I won't stalk again. I feel absolutely nothing towards anyone right now and I've had to condition myself to not feel for her. I think having this lack of emotion made me hypersensitive to it once i actually felt it, and man did it feel great. She was and is the only source of that feeling, that in a sense makes her invaluable. 

Yes,  I can only imagine this is what an addict would go through, there wasn't 10 minutes that went by without me thinking of her. Luckily she only pops in my head every other week now and when references are made to her.

"Stalking sounds exhausting. All that time and effort with what to show for it once you move on?"

^ This exact reason was another anchor that kept me from getting away from her. Why would I want to start over with someone else? I have years with this woman. I tried moving on, dated women while I took small breaks from stalking her, in the end I was tearing them down mentally and then trying to build a copy of her by scratch. I didn't notice this until some introspection but by that time I was about 4 girls into it. Ironically, 2 of those 4 in turn tried stalking me, sad things.

Lol I've gained a Resentful Stalker of my own, but it's only limited to cyberstalking for now.

never once backhanded the girl you pimped?

I know I've recommended this site in the past, but don't look here for anything but laughs.

http://www.experienceproject.com/groups/Am-A-Stalker/135639

Mostly 15 year old girls complaining on how they've been daydreaming about dicks for 2 weeks. 

EDIT:

"I am a sixteen-year-old girl, a sophomore in High School, and I am madly in love with a sixteen-year-old Junior girl "

X'(

 I think since I can't actually find any other stalkers to relate with, I'll just lurk on the hundreds of stalker victim forums. See if it provides any entertainment.

who? and what makes you think she's dangerous?

No, I've had an outburst. Yelling and cursing but that was only once, I have a good amount of self control.

by Systematic

Predatory Stalker

Motivation: This type of stalker stalks their survivor as part of a plan to attack them, usually sexually, and is motivated by the promise of sexual gratification and power over the survivor.

Personality: This type of stalker often has poor self-esteem, poor social skills (especially in romantic relationships), and may have lower than normal intelligence.

I know a thing or two about predatory stalking and I can tell you that there are a lot of predatory stalkers that do not have low self-esteem or poor social skills. And they certainly do not have lower than normal intelligence. To say that type of stalker often does is a bit of a fallacy I would think.

Here is something interesting:

Is the Predatory Stalker a Psychopath?

While most stalkers (or sexual offenders, for that matter) are not psychopaths, it is interesting that those stalkers who do have psychopathic traits tend to exhibit pursuit behaviors that are similar to stalking predators.  For instance, research suggests that psychopathy is associated with what could be summarized as “boldness and coldness” in stalkers.

Predatory stalkers are also most likely to lead double lives, leaving their friends and family stunned and disbelieving when they are finally caught. Night stalker Delroy Grant, for example, who stalked, raped and terrorized retired pensioners for years, was viewed as a friendly, self-sacrificing neighbor who religiously cared for his wife who was paralyzed from the neck down from multiple sclerosis.  Midwestern “Mall Rapist” James Perry stalked young girls in the malls and shopping center parking lots, was a popular member of his suburban community, where he lived with his wife and two young children.

Source: http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-human-equation/201212/the-predatory-stalker

Psychopaths’ stalking behaviors tend to be predatory or instrumental in nature. The victim is viewed more as a possession or target for control, retribution, or revenge, rather than as the object of a pathologically based fantasy, obsession, or infatuation. Further, psychopaths tend to become bored rather quickly and are thought to engage in short-term stalking with financial goals or those related to power and control.

Source: http://www.fbi.gov/stats-services/publications/law-enforcement-bulletin/july-2012/perspective

'top kek'
is how i would respond