Here is my perspective, If I were the woman you stalked, and you did that to me, I would be very very angry.
I don't think it is a nice thing to do.
Called her up. Went something like this:
Me: So if your up, I've got something I need your input on.
Her: I'm always up.
Her: Shoot awaaay
Me: I can't help but wonder what your opinion is of me over these past couple years.
Her: Whyyy does it matter?
Me: It doesn't anymore, always wondered what you thought.
Her:..........
(No reply for 2 hours)
Me: I wouldn't of asked you that question if it wasn't important. It would take you seconds to give me some peace of mind.
She never answered back. I was infuriated that the little bitch hadn't had the respect to answer a simple question for me. After all the time I've spent protecting her. she doesn't deserve me.