by EtzelThat's because you were a healthy and strong man
WTF - do i really come across as a butcho macho man online?? 
(well i chose to take it as a compliment alright :/ )
Me earlier:
It even sounds ridiculous to you that someone may need to do this. But that's all good, it means you are healthy. That is clearly not the case with our dear RainMaker friend, however, so I'll continue with his psychoanalysis and hopefully he himself will start getting a clue of wtf his mind is up to, and more importantly what he should do from now on.
And what he should do from now on is to GROW UP and to start deriving his values FROM HIMSELF. That's what mature men do. Little kids and little women derive their values from others, but men KNOW from THEMSELVES what is good and what is bad -- they never expect others to confer to them what is or what should be.
