I remember last year when he was spazzing in chat because he was supposedly going to get banned and it never happened.
Haha, how!? How is "he" rational and lever-headed? Give me examples. He is more paranoid than a virgin at a prison rodeo, and his obsessive over thinking is what you are witnessing here, not "realism". To blame "his" being a bitch on this "disease" that makes people enjoy pain, or his schizophrenia, and Petty Typical Senseless Drama is just giving the victim more reason to relive their "hardships". I can't side with this "poor guy was raped by an orca!" lamenting bus, this scenario is just too pathetic.
@ Shoog: Darn…so much for that, huh :(
Alright, I didn't know she was that much larger and stronger than you. You could have fought her off, but you already stated the reasons why you couldn't(?), mentioning being docile from being hit, mental troubles, and that sort of thing. So, I understand the event that occurred.
Why you let it continue is still absurd to me. You say it was because you felt trapped. You wanted/needed your degree, didn't have anywhere else to go, the people you told about it either didn't believe you or didn't know what to do either, and if you went to the police about it you were convinced they'd shrug you off and that she'd twist her words in their ear. That may all be well and true, but a restraining order is easy to obtain. You could have easily gotten one and when she violated it, you had something concrete to work with.
My point is this. Was it rape? Yes, I reject my previous statement in saying it was not even though it would never hold up in court. It was still your fault for letting it continue to happen. Your fears and rationalizations stemming from your weakness and insecurities is to blame for the continued abuse you accepted. It is your own fault. You always have a choice and you continued to do nothing. Your choices for doing so are irrelevant to me. I just have a hard time sympathizing with a situation that could have been dealt with, regardless of your own ill reasons for not doing so.
How many of TC's posts have you read? You barely come here. Based on what I've read from him so far I can think of no other words that suit TC better than analytical and rational.
As for PTSD, it's smth recognized world wide by people with way more studies and experience than you. Saying it's not real makes you look ignorant... (or posturing as a badass, which we both know you love to do :D)
And how can anyone say this entire story was invented or shared to make TC look good, or because he enjoys the drama... Sharing smth like this, on this site, is sure to get that person mocked, attacked, misunderstood, doubted and everything else that happened in this case. That he shared the story despite this predictable negative attention is in fact one of the reasons I believe TC was honest about it in the first place.
Yeah you know based on what I've read TC seems to be one of the most rational and smartest people on this site. I doubt he shared his story expecting a boost of some sort.
I think it was very brave of him to share something so sacred and tragic.
TC you're the bomb.com and remember haters gon hate. :)
I have read enough, and you are far from rational and analytical yourself. You flip your shit based on the smallest of things, so your bus riding probably has more to do with that :D
Reread my commentary. At no time at ALL did I say PTSD it isn't real. Putting words in my digital mouth that I never even used makes you look ignorant. And I AM a badass.
The last part of your comment I don't even know where it came from. I don't remember anyone saying it was made up. Sharing something like this on "this" site is expected with all of these pussies sharing their woes of life like it is a support community. People are mocked for being bitches, and that is exactly what he was, which is why he is being mocked. Not getting what is so hard to understand about this...
Rosa, you sound like a victim of your own sexual hardships that you never got over, and you are kissing his ass and attempting to give him strength vicariously through hollow words that further encourage the victimization trend. It would have been brave to step up to that cunt after the deed was done the first time, but he didn't do that, did he?