Hmmm. I agree mostly, but one could argue that Borderlines meet all those criteria too? Strong reality (they think everyone's out to get them). Unwillingness to accept outside input (although the "strict logical sense" rider doesn't apply here) and paranoia about the intentions of others (check). Borderlines do a lot of subconscious gaslighting, unlike ASD's who are calculated about it. However, Borderlines can also easily be gaslighted, and in fact are vulnerable to it which ASD's often exploit. So...I'm wondering still if like Borderlines, can ASD's be susceptible to it?
FYI, feel free to shoot down any obvious presumptions or miconceptions. I'm new to this personality disorder stuff.