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HAHAHAHAHA! ^^^^^ friggin' 'Try hard'.

by Piles the Beaver

HAHAHAHAHA! ^^^^^ friggin' 'Try hard'.

 At everything. ;)

~Faux

The bottom line is that you're a fucking time waster and a whingy little twat. If pretending to care about your friends and family's opinions doesn't bother you shouldn't have come here to complain about it. If it does bother you then stop doing it. Clearly this is about validating your ASPD otherwise you wouldn't have felt the need to mention that you're diagnosed and write that extensive post explaining how your actions and thought process fit in with your alleged sociopathy. I still think you're just a depressive sad sack seeing as you have to put so much energy into appearing happy, you don't have the confidence to express yourself to people, and you bitch and moan constantly. Plus I'm sure failing to stand on your own two feet in the world and having to move back in with your mum must've futher damaged your self esteem. Mabye you actually should open up to your family about how you really feel. Don't be afraid. Let it all out. Talking helps.

what is this position or perception ur afraid to lose ?

u sound like a bum to me

by FauxAffablyEvil

 

by thesugargirl

"I even have to pretend to care about certain peoples facebook profiles when I really want to give my anti social response. I'm tired of respect."

you constantly use terms like 'can't' and 'have to', then act nonchalant. what kinda things do you have to care about on FB?

 You peoples constant state of skepticism and need for valid ultra clear, concise statements are really annoying. Can't you just understand without me going into super detail? Heres an example. A person you know or family member posts something on your wall about a sensitive subject and obviously wants a response. I can  A say my real opinion or B say some some shit that would obvious reveal myself to everyone. I am FULLY aware that I don't have to keep appearances, but I do. It's not that I literally CANT. But if I want to keep the high ground then I SHOULD. Therefore I can't. I don't care about hurting feelings. I care about my position. Although I kind of don't care about that either. I'm not going to ALWAYS be me or ALWAYS wear a mask.

"Weeeellll, I have been diagnosed with ASPD, just saying."
"What does matter is the proof in my behavior in the past, which 2 doctors have confirmed as ASPD."

Really now? Tell us about it.

Yes! I have gotten tired of playing a role and wearing a mask. Now that I'm retired I don't have to do that as much. I get my Social Security check and a small pension. The world can go fuck. I have revealed myself to my partner. OK. I don't let her knew EVERYTHING but I'm pretty open to her.

Sometimes being forced to give clear concise answers makes us see the gaps in our understanding.

by Piles the Beaver

You're dumb and dramatic. Start being "yourself" if it annoys you so much. When I feel like being myself, even if self is an asshole to others, I am that way. You can deal with the negative backlash that I am sure will come with being an asshole, or you can continue to make things pleasant for others, which ends up being pleasant for yourself.

If you don't care about formalities, start being a dickhole. I don't have your issue with pretending because in pretending I am having fun, and in being "myself" I have fun. So much drama for something not that serious :(

 This is a good post. Be yourself. I'm so tired about the mask shit that gets thrown around.

You'd be amazed with how much you can get away with in social interactions. With how difficult to deal with you can be for others, without them doing much apart from learning to accept you for who you are. The nice things you'll do or say to them them will be even more appreciated. Be more demanding, and people will even jump through hoops to please you.

Family will usually be there for you and accept you, no matter what. Friends, you should keep around those who can deal with you in the first place. Being genuine is always better than being fake, in your group. Superiors/Bosses? Well, with them things can get a bit tricky. If you're valuable enough to them, they'll put up with a lot of your shit too, believe me, I know. Just be really good at what you do, find the thing you're talented at and the power will tilt in your favor before you know it.

If you go around walking on eggshells to not hurt people and let them see how much of a "baddie" you are (you're probably not from what I read), a lot of your frustration at others comes from feeling socially oppressed by them in the first place. Being forced to be someone you're not is like having your identity taken away from you. Letting that happen makes you a doormat. Train/Shape your social environment after you, don't let it shape/train you. You have more to win this way, in the long run.

very nicely put

by Helena

Just a quick question - of those of you who have actually dealt with sociopaths - you know, people who have actually been diagnosed with Antisocial Personality Disorder - have any of you heard them whining about having to conceal themselves? Sociopaths don't even realize that they're doing this. They certainly don't whine about it.

I just thought of the psychopaths I know and that made me laugh.

by freebehindmymask

Yes! I have gotten tired of playing a role and wearing a mask. Now that I'm retired I don't have to do that as much. I get my Social Security check and a small pension. The world can go fuck. I have revealed myself to my partner. OK. I don't let her knew EVERYTHING but I'm pretty open to her.

Lesbo psyho granny makes me laugh too XD

of course there still are things you should hide. and dont be (too)rude.