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What It really Means To Be A Bully

True, but what about the people you've victimized who don't think they're acting like victims? Objectively, are they or are they not acting like victims?

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Some acted like victims. Some didn't. Some were just fun to taunt.

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Have you ever personally thought that someone was acting like a victim when objectively, they weren't?

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Sometimes I might tell someone they're acting like a victim just to taunt them. That may not be really acting like one at all, but I'll say it anyway to get a reaction.

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That didn't answer the question.

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What It really Means To Be A Bully

Hahahahaha Synth, fucking genius! 

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by Synthetic

Have you ever personally thought that someone was acting like a victim when objectively, they weren't?

No.

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by Synthetic

I think it's funny that you self-identify as an antisocial sadist yet you agree with an article that says that sadistic antisocial behavior is a result of weakness and insecurity.

 doesn't hurt to identify ones weakness, that only makes you stronger.

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As I told Synthetic, who appears to be rather naive:

Bullying and antisocial behavior are not the same thing. Just as bullying and sadism are not the same thing. You can be a sadist with AsPD and not be a bully. And not every bully is weak and insecure.

There are different types of bullies who bully people for different reasons.

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Bullying and antisocial behavior are not the same thing.

1. "Therein lies the makings for a mighty manipulation."

2. "The underlying ethos is something more subtle that speaks quite pointedly to an overall lack of [...] emotional intelligence on the part of the bully."

3. "This failing leads, subsequently, to that overarching need for, and exercise of, control that the bully, often much to our chagrin, plays out."

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/enlightened-living/200911/ego-insecurity-and-the-destructive-narcissist

 

1. "Deceitfulness, as indicated by repeated lying, use of aliases, or conning others for personal profit or pleasure."

2. "Lack of remorse, as indicated by being indifferent to or rationalizing having hurt, mistreated, or stolen from another."

3. "Irritability and aggressiveness, as indicated by repeated physical fights or assaults."

http://psychcentral.com/disorders/antisocial-personality-disorder-symptoms/

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