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by whoameye

 You would be surprised how much you have in common if you two could talk on a serious note and not out of despite.

You are both Alpha females and that is why you but heads.

Pink is not an Alpha, lol. She's a weak, submissive little slut. We have hardly anything at all in common.

It's insulting to be compared to her.

 I was way off on her then.

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Well Demon you do indeed seem to be quite offended that you were compared to me...am I everything you've tried to run away from? Tsk tsk...

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by whoameye

If you are submisive in real life and let people take advantage of you. You are not antisocial.  

If you have control of your surroundings and you don't let people take advantage of you.Then you are a leader(alpha) Even tho you might seem submissive to others. You still have control and they don't even know it. This is how someone with a antisocial disorder or someone who is normal and is a leader

I don't think it is even possible for someone with a, antisocial disorder, to be submissive without nothing to gain. People with this disorder allways maintain the upper hand in most situations. That is why you might run into someone in a leadership position that could be antisocial. Not all people with this disorder stay hidden from society.

 That's actually always been my policy. I do what I need to do to get things done.

There are people around here with far too much pride. It confuses me LOL.

Who cares if someone sees you as weak? What's wrong with a little submission? Too much narcissism.

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You speak sense whoameye  (your reasons for doing so may however be suspect). I don't think I have AsPD, I've never been diagnosed with anything either, but I recognize certain behaviors in myself that correlate with it; callousness; aptitude for manipulation; lack of fear for my well-being when confronted with very real danger; risk taking...

Anyway, I think you're right. I think personality disorders have been fetishized by the media and it provides a convenient scape-goat and fantasy shield for some people. Outside of that, it's a somewhat attractive prospect, to have this part of you that's missing that allows you to to perform in manners outside the capacity of normal, psychologically well-rounded individuals.

 

I feel this way about people with Aspergers. I would love to try on a pair of Aspie goggles for a day.

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by myrealname

You speak sense whoameye  (your reasons for doing so may however be suspect). I don't think I have AsPD, I've never been diagnosed with anything either, but I recognize certain behaviors in myself that correlate with it; callousness; aptitude for manipulation; lack of fear for my well-being when confronted with very real danger; risk taking...

Anyway, I think you're right. I think personality disorders have been fetishized by the media and it provides a convenient scape-goat and fantasy shield for some people. Outside of that, it's a somewhat attractive prospect, to have this part of you that's missing that allows you to to perform in manners outside the capacity of normal, psychologically well-rounded individuals.

 

I feel this way about people with Aspergers. I would love to try on a pair of Aspie goggles for a day.

 

That's the thing: most people actually DON'T idealize personality disorders...none of them. It's just a small population of the internet that does. 

This is what society classes as "crazy" people because they are crazy. Borderlines are crazy, histrionics, narc, antisocials, etc

There is nothing attractive about threatening to kill yourself if your boyfriend leaves and there's nothing attractive about lacking empathy, remorse and screwing everyone around you over.

Not saying that I would change myself. But my personality by the majority of people is not idealized...

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by Pink01

 

 

 

 

This is what society classes as "crazy" people because they are crazy. Borderlines are crazy, histrionics, narc, antisocials, etc

 

 Speak for yourself. I am not crazy!

I do agree, most of the population does not idealize people with PD's. In fact they fear them and want nothing to do with them. Some more than others.

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Yea, people who can't function properly nor take care of themselves when the majority can are obviously seen as pathetic in the eyes of the majority.

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Since when did "some people" mean the population. And as for the fetishization of insanity, I could hurl pop-culture references at you all night to prove my point, but I'm sure you know what I'm talking about. I never mentioned mass idolization, that would be silly.

 

People don't find the realities of mental illness attractive, but they find the way in which they are represented in media alluring.

 

Please make sure your counter arguments actually apply to what I say, this whole thing doesn't work if you don't.

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That's the thing: most people actually DON'T idealize personality
disorders...none of them. It's just a small population of the internet
that does.

 

I agree.

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There is a difference between watching a movie once and thinking it's cool VERSUS convincing yourself you're mentally ill and making accounts on websites also convincing yourself...

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