i was reading articles on sociopaths, i started looking on more info on it and eventually found a link to this place. now i'm here learning from you guys.
I threw one of those so-called unbreakable cooking pots at him after I interrogated him. Remember the ones they used to drop out of a 25 storey window in the commercials? It broke when I threw it at him. Probably bc I threw a pyrex measuring cup first and he caught it. The 2 items smashed together and mangled his arm...or maybe that was bc I hit him again with something else. I was pretty close to a blackout rage, so I wasn't taking inventory of the damage as I hit him.
He managed to duck and run after I brought the assault up close. He grabbed the phone and called the cops. The cops sent an ambulance. Just before he left he came back to get his coat and knapsack. He said that the paramedics told him there was major nerve damage to his forearm and he'd be lucky to regain full use of his hand. At least the blows that connected with his back only bruised him. He was a burly guy. No broken ribs or anything. I was not aiming for his head. I still had enough self control left to consider what would happen if I killed him.
I brought my daughter to a world class children's hospital and had an expert examine her for signs of injury. The doctor said she looked ok, but he still may have creeped on her without hurting her.
I don't charge people if I can help it. I don't like cops and I like social workers even less.
Fuck off Borghese. 1 in 4 Canadian girls gets molested, and 1 in 7 boys. Across all social strata. You prevent garbage like that by educating your kids, not by pretending the shit only happens to 'bad' people.
I've already admitted that I made a big mistake with him. He was one of the 7 friends I mentioned on PF a few weeks back. The one I said I betrayed.
And no, I still don't trust men around kids bc of the stats I've read. It was shortly after that incident that I stopped allowing men in my house altogether. I allowed work crews, etc. and the occasional neighbour for dinner or coffee as long as he was accompanied by a spouse. I haven't had sex in my home with my child there since my daughter was barely old enough to walk. She was sound asleep in her crib in her room on the other side of the apartment, if that was your next question. :P
No I was not molested. You people and your stereotypes...
Because I'm poor, I've always been interrogated by assholes who make assumptions like that. I can see how that nonsense becomes a self-fulfilling stereotype for some people. But I was never one of them.
I'm intentionally manless and accidentally poor. That's all.
Next accusation? yawn
by XenaShe told me years later that she frequently told me yes when I kept asking her the same question over and over. She didn't know what I was asking her. She was too young.
Emphasis on keeping asking the same question over and over. She learnt that you won't stop interrogating her until she gives you the answer you want. So she said 'yes' to blow you off and to stop you bugging her about her down under. Y'know, children are naturally uncomfortable about having to discuss down under with adults.
by Xena
I brought my daughter to a world class children's hospital and had an expert examine her for signs of injury. The doctor said she looked ok, but he still may have creeped on her without hurting her.
Excellent. That examination for a small child is just as traumatic (if not more) than being actually molested.
Fuck off Borghese. 1 in 4 Canadian girls gets molested, and 1 in 7 boys. Across all social strata.
Can you back up that statistics with a creditworthy source?
By creditworthy I mean NOT one of your feminist pamphlets.
I haven't had sex in my home with my child there since my daughter was barely old enough to walk.
I let you in on a big secret Xena. Married/unmarried couples don't stop having sex after their child was born.
Maybe they don't do the Danny's Bouncy Boner Show all day long in the kitchen, but there are many other means to have sex after you had children, without farming them out to grandma for the duration.
http://www.psychforums.com/attention-deficit-hyperactivity/topic88063.html#p816387
Because I'm poor, I've always been interrogated by assholes who make assumptions like that.
Excuse me. I'm poor too and I grew up in a really rough country. I've never been interrogated by assholes because I'm poor.
(The only thing I was interrogated for was my anti-marxist activity, which i indeed engaged in.)
Yeah to be honest Xena the only thing that's strange about how you shove your kids off to have sex is how much your sex life must suck.
I'll tell you what my parents did...they locked the door. And had the light on. (not for me - that's just how I knew they were getting it on)
If I was in trouble they were right there. I assure you unless you moan like a female lion it's going to be alright.
You people are really trying hard to make me out to be a skank or smthg. lol
You want my full sexual history? I had a life. I had a few jobs. I went out to karaoke. I went to pagan meetings. Normal stuff, you know? I had a few roommates, all strictly platonic. Sex was not at the forefront of my mind. I turn it down a lot bc I'm picky. I like to go out to dinner with a potential partner a few times before I have sex. I like to build some trust before I bring him home to meet my kids. There were a few prospects (like maybe a dozen in just as many years) but none worked out. It may sound like I had a lot of sex by the way I go on, but it was all repeat sex with one person over weeks or months before the relationship ended. Then a long sexless phase where I told everybody who made passes at me to go away so I could focus on girl scout meetings and baking cookies. Then months later, maybe another partner. There were a few one night stands in there, but very few. I learned to expect disrespect when I say yes on the first date, so I started saying no.
pink, your parents were married. I don't consider it appropriate to bring a string of fuck-n-chucks home while my kids are around. I'm also still in the closet about my relationships with women. Coming out IRL could be disastrous for me if the lady isn't marriage minded. I think my family would be ok with it, but I don't need any more stress from my nosy neighbours.
That's it. I'm an old fashioned prude with a healthy sexual appetite who's overprotective of my kids. Big secret. I masturbate in the shower with the door locked about twice/ month when my son's in bed or at scout camp. lol