actually you can learn it. it's called self preservation. you can always change the way people perceive you.
Wrong question. We were talking about the capabilities you lack, not what you possess.
Remember, you said you "usually check the person's qualifications, business plan, trying to grasp his/her expectations in the social setting" blah blah, "laying foundations, challenging their authority while scrutinizing" blah.
That's what we're talking about.
My point for the fourth time:
Popular =/= charismatic.
Rich people can only find out how charismatic they were after they lose their money. Hot people can only find out how charismatic they were when they're no longer hot.
Therefore: A PERSON WHO IS NOT HOT OR RICH who nonetheless succeeds IS CHARISMATIC.
Do you get it now?
Rich people are generally born in areas where everyone else is rich. You can find 100 rich people socializing with each other, and on a playing field where money does not give them an advantage over one another, you can see which ones are charismatic. Same with pretty people. Go to a modeling or acting audition - everyone will be pretty. You'll still be able to see which ones are charismatic.
Charisma is the ability to make a connection with other people. It's possible to be successful without being charismatic, and it's possible to be charismatic without being successful. You're basing your point on the result of using charisma to achieve a goal, but you're undermining it by saying that the only way you can apply charisma to that goal is if you have absolutely nothing else at your disposal.
lol.
Define my perspective. Tell me about my reference points.
Tell me about my circumstances and what you believe I chose.
It's beginning to look like you're making some unfounded assumptions about me. But I may give you the benefit of the doubt if you can define for me precisely what you believe I lack.