I wasn't referring to the ones that flirt for fun, I love those. I'm referring to the crabby bitter paranoid ones that you can't hold a door open for, without her saying "I can get it myself....".
Though I'll admit I can be overly flirtatious, and its seldom followed by genuine attraction, so this does come acrossed wrong. I do send the wrong message at times with that. That I'm looking for sex when I'm not.
My sexual partners viewed me as being cherublike, it was quite disturbing. I don't know how I maintained the "sweet and innocent" image in their heads for so long. Being that I still talk to the people I slept with, I don't think they view me like that, they're quite nice to me actually. Though there was more to it than just sex. We had common interests.