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Wow. What an amazing story.

I've seen his eyes 'flash' when he tells me something I don't believe. This has only been happening within the past week. He told me he  missed holding me in his arms all night. I must have had a look on my face which he did not like. I saw his eyes change briefly. The look in his  eyes was nothing less than sadistic. it's the only word to describe what anger I saw. when a sociopath starts letting their mask slip, does this happen?

:D I ran out of space 

by Claire

...when a socio starts letting their mask slip...

 I can spot a Dexter fan a mile away.

I've never seen dexter. Maybe I'd like it?

by Claire

 

Recently, after having repeatedly expressed my need for honesty and loyalty and my 'feeling' that he does not love me and is not honest with me, he has adapted. he seems more comfortable with the idea that I know how he is but love him anyway.

 

Are you really that stupid ??   you've requested honesty and loyalty from your sociopathic boyfriend ??    He isn't capable of such things or actually loving you.   You're a piece of meat he will use until it doesn't suit him anymore and discard you without a moment's hesitation .. get in touch with reality and fuck him off first

When your boyfriend talks about love he's more talking about an obsession. You're useful to him. So either keep being useful or fuck him over.

The success of your relationship will depend on the ways in which each of your disorders manifests. Like any other relationship, it's a combination of inherent compatibility and making the decision to be in a relationship with each other. Asking him if he's a sociopath won't tell you anything since it manifests in different ways, anything from financial parasites and serial cheaters to serial rapists and murderers. You might be the type of woman who is okay with cheating in a long term relationship but draw the line at child molestation, or you might be the opposite and not care whether or not he rapes children as long as he isn't with any adult female other than yourself.

In general, the easiest way to get honesty is to return positive feedback as a reward for honesty. That's more than just saying "I accept the truth," since if he told the truth to provoke a response and didn't get one, he might instead try lying to provoke the desired response. I don't think you should expect loyalty after 4 months of dating, and I think that if you really get to know how he is, and really do love him anyway, you'll find that these problems you're worrying about now are irrelevant. In other words, if you say you know someone's a liar, and you love them anyway, then you can't expect them not to lie.

by GrandMoff

 

by Claire

 

Recently, after having repeatedly expressed my need for honesty and loyalty and my 'feeling' that he does not love me and is not honest with me, he has adapted. he seems more comfortable with the idea that I know how he is but love him anyway.

 

 

Are you really that stupid ??   you've requested honesty and loyalty from your sociopathic boyfriend ??    He isn't capable of such things or actually loving you.   You're a piece of meat he will use until it doesn't suit him anymore and discard you without a moment's hesitation .. get in touch with reality and fuck him off first

 thank you for the reply. my curiosity and desire to learn and for self improvement have kept me around. And also thinking that perhaps I'm contributing to his own learn. I'd like to think he is capable of loyalty. Is there never a benefit for sociopaths to be loyal?