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Plans for your future Spouse


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What are your long term plans for a spouse? Do you want to be married? Do you want children? Or, do you simply just want to be alone.

I want to be married, but lose my wife through divorce or death(preferably death) in my mid life(40-50) 

I was wondering if any of you had similar plans or if I'm alone on this one.

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I have no desire to ever get married. I don't see the point in it unless it's for business/tax reasons or it offers financial reward when the spouse dies. I've been proposed to twice and both times I declined.

I have one kid. That's enough for me. I'll get an abortion if I ever fall pregnant again because I sure as shit don't want to go though raising a kid again.

Do I want to be alone? Most of the time, yes. Sometimes, no. Sometimes I do wish I had someone I could share certain pleasures with and confide in. The problem is finding someone who is very similar to myself, yet different in the ways I would want them to be. And of course, being able to trust them, which is something I find hard to do with anyone.

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I almost went through with a false marriage. The military doubles your pay if you have a spouse.

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Why didn't you do it?

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I'd rather fuck a shit ton of people and be free.

If I find the person very sexually attractive and/or interesting maybe I'll consider a relationship but it's not gonna last.

Man is made to fuck not to be in couple with a single person his whole life.

 

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I became a reservist.

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That's certainly an incentive to get married.

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by DarkAges

Man is made to fuck not to be in couple with a single person his whole life.

I disagree with that.

It's more convenient when raising children to be partnered with someone else, and since humans are instinctively a social species, it's natural to look for a partner who may help to increase your chance of survival in some way.

But if fucking is you're only objective, then sure, being single is the best option.

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Thanks to insomnia, I have too much time alone with only my thoughts to keep me company to really enjoy living alone for too long. My future spouse would need to be a sadist that understands subtlety and patience, has similar interests, interesting traits, and an acceptance for who I am. It's too early for me to consider marriage, both for time spent dating and, by my opinion, my age, but who I'm dating fits the bill surprisingly well.

I was almost duped into a marriage that would have been doomed to fail. I'm glad that's behind me now.

Edit: Hm, post 2500.

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It's more convenient when raising children to be partnered with someone else.

Yeah I didn't think about kids since I don't have any but you're right it would be easier to share the work with a partner.

humans are instinctively a social species, it's natural to look for a partner who may help to increase your chance of survival in some way.

That's what buddies are for. Unless of course you're playing an angle: to be a stay-at-home person and let the spouse provide for you in that case I agree too.

 

 

 

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