I don't want that. But hey, I am not a stalker.
I know a lot of Narcissists prefer that in a woman. That is why I am attracted to strong men, who turn out to be NPD. But, I can't stand it after a while.
This is from Haven's borderline blog. It is about a BPD and NPD love affair.
http://www.downwardspiralintothevortex.com/2011/07/consumed-by-you-consumed-by-me.html
It is about Love vs. Obsession. I wonder if it fits for Sociopaths too. Do sociopaths become obsessed?