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Sociopathic cowardice

Sociopaths are a threat to your emotions, your mental health, your finances and even your life. If you’ve already run across one of these social predators, figure out what happened and recover.


Your friends and family won’t understand. If you go to counseling with this character, the therapist may be snowed. Banks and credit card companies won’t care that you’ve been defrauded. Sociopaths routinely manipulate the judicial system. And law enforcement authorities won’t take any real action unless you’re dead—and then it’s a little late.

Why does this happen? Because people don’t realize sociopaths exist—and how destructive they are.

Who am I to say this? I’m Donna Andersen, and I’ve been there. A man who I believe is a sociopath took US$227,000 from me—and similar amounts from at least four other women that I know of. It added up to more than US$1 million. The saga involves theft, fraud, bigamy—and the “system” was powerless to do anything about it.

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by lovefraud

So how do you recover?

 some people want money or attention or power or love or lust

it depends what the sociopath wants and if it was enough and if it lasts long enough

if one of them became a sociopath through poverty they win millions of dollars they would effectively be cured to some degree where they no longer go around making love fraud to scam people because they already got what they wanted

 

if a sociopath lacked love in their life(not the above type) and found someone that loved them a lot and hadn't critized them for their mistakes (this person is hard to find) the sociopath probably could recover from abuse they had as a kid or teen maybe even kick start what ever emotion that died in them if anything was left

 

if one of them was bossed around by authority figures and manipulated they might want power so they gain lots of facebook friends make some lies to control them and in a slight way are cured if you do not try and destroy what they created they would treat you as nicely as possible

 

it really depends on how far they are broken and what disorder that coexists with their problem

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0qyCR9tPDgM this sociopath can't be cured

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ME2wmFunCjU this sociopath girl was cured because she got help before it was too late and lives a normal life with normal behavior now

you would need A LOT of power or money or love to fix someone of an adult age sociopath and it might not be perfect

 

if you help a child+usually teen sociopath you could save them a lot easier than the adult kind which evolved around their illness

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by lovefraud

Sociopaths are a threat to your emotions, your mental health, your finances and even your life. If you’ve already run across one of these social predators, figure out what happened and recover.


Your friends and family won’t understand. If you go to counseling with this character, the therapist may be snowed. Banks and credit card companies won’t care that you’ve been defrauded. Sociopaths routinely manipulate the judicial system. And law enforcement authorities won’t take any real action unless you’re dead—and then it’s a little late.

Why does this happen? Because people don’t realize sociopaths exist—and how destructive they are.

Who am I to say this? I’m Donna Andersen, and I’ve been there. A man who I believe is a sociopath took US$227,000 from me—and similar amounts from at least four other women that I know of. It added up to more than US$1 million. The saga involves theft, fraud, bigamy—and the “system” was powerless to do anything about it.

there is no proof you are who you say you are :D with your attention seeking and victim act

and there is something you can do.. if they had friends you can target their friends and show them evidence+lies with a possible chance it destroys the relationship they had to hurt the person who ripped you off (if they cared about that friend)

more importantly you should name and shame who did it to you rather than say who you are and how you were targeted because you appear like a trap to lure empathic people to you...to control them

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Sociopathic cowardice

I fear there is a general misconception about describing the theme of fear around here.

Everyone fears.

Not everyone shows it in the same way.

If someone faces an adverse situation and acts to overcome it, is it overcoming your fear, or having no fear?

Only dead people know no fear.

Allow me to provide an example.

As a child I was never taught to ride a bicycle.

Upon the age of 12 I was send to a specific summer camp.

There it was made clear to me, that within the 3 weeks I was to spend there, a bicycle trip was to be a part of the whole experience.

I didn't dread the experience of being proven to be unable to ride the bicycle (wink, wink), but knowing the childish atmosphere persistent within such environments, I didn't want to show any weakness to my peers.

My solution was to break my leg, thus providing myself with an excuse. To achieve this I climbed a tree and jumped to the ground from a height of about 5 meters.

The problem with my attempt was that I climbed trees and jumped from them from a very early age, allowing me to develop an instinct for providing a soft landing to my body (I abuse that ability to this day, being 35 and still jumping off significant heights and landing on concrete without any damage. Eventually I will break a bone in my body). In addition to this, the landing area was made up of soft sand.

So, as nothing came of my attempt to damage myself, in order to avoid the annoyance of being the butt of jokes for the other campers, I searched for other solutions to my problem (learning to ride a bicycle, or asking someone to provide me with assistance in this affair didn't seem the right solution at the time).

Meanwhile, a heavily pouring rain blasted the area with sheets of cold precipitation and the bicycle trip got delayed by two days.

Thus I got sick from the exposure and the bug that was metabolizing and reproducing on the campers.

I had to be isolated with a number of other 'exposes' for the next week and therefore managed to avoid the bicycle trip.

Stupidity is born of fear, yet might seem bereft of it at times.

P.S.

I learned to ride a bicycle when I was 19 and had been an avid mountain cyclist since.

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