Oh my, well thanks, thou Biter. I'd be sure to watch thy teeth.
The sociopath is ultimately cowardly, incredibly cowardly, not his victims foolish or gullible. Let me say this again—this makes the exploiter incredibly cowardly because, among other things, he is preying not on gullible fools (as he may perceive, contemptuously, his victims to be), but rather on those who have entered into a relationship with him on a natural, healthy pretext of trust (thereby making them the least challenging, the easiest, victims to defraud).
This reminds me of the bonding exercise in which one partner, demonstrating trust in the other, agrees to fall backwards in the faith that the receiving partner will catch and protect her. This isn’t gullibility at work but rather natural trust and faith she is risking that her partner will catch her, and not let her fall and injure herself. The exploiter in this analogy as if goads his partner into falling backwards and then, instead of catching her, as she should reasonably expect he will, he lets her drop and so injures her badly. And she, the victim of his deception, is left to feel shocked, betrayed and wounded.
it's not all black and white some "victims" provoke the sociopath and due to mental health issues how the sociopath was harmed in child or teen life they revert back to treating the person how they were treated as revenge for what the "victim" did to start it
you're thought process is very linear and one sided (i'm not saying that you are incorrect.) just that there is more than one side and it has the rare occasions the victim purposely started something with someone they didn't know was a sociopath the victim thought it was completely harmless but that's the thingpeople on this forum started to be sadistic because i "annoyed" them by spammingall sociopaths have different coexisting disorders so they are all a mixture of colours in a rainbow and like a child with a rainbow they think it's real untill they find one and try to touch air as it vanishesit's not impossible to have a sociopath as your partner you just need to know what to do to prevent provoking them because they aren't all aggressive their is ones that are highly defensive you complained about their mistake and it upsets them and they begin their crap at you (complaining about their mistake shows you didn't fully accept them and were not completely honest)
So how do you recover?
First of all, understand that you are not a fool, you were targeted. Sociopaths are expert manipulators. They spend their whole lives perfecting their acts. There are millions of sociopaths on the planet, and each has conned hundreds of people. You are certainly not alone.
Secondly, get help—the right help. Do not expect your family and friends to understand. No one really understands unless they, too, have been targeted. If you see a therapist, make sure he or she knows what it’s like to be involved with a sociopath. Some therapists are excellent, but others really do not understand the trauma suffered by victims of sociopaths.
Finally, give yourself time and distance. The fastest way to heal is to have No Contact with the sociopath. Away from the predator’s influence, the reality of the deceptions will become clear. Even so, you will have to do a lot of emotional processing and grieving. Be patient with yourself.
My “ex†had no problems sleeping through my nightime bathroom miscarriage despite my pleas for help. Likewise, when I once had the flu, I recall spending the night painfully voiding from all orifices while he kept sleeping and refused to help. But whenever he caught a small cold, he acted like he was dying and required all kinds of help.
really? maybe we should get thrill kill to say how she wants to fuck her daughter (or kill her) and how she sucks at life and lives off government welware and has interests in violence and sex and fails at manipulating people but scores very high on sociopath tests like http://personality-testing.info/tests/LSRP.php
they aren't all like how you said..... :/
and i do understand.. my mum is a sociopath and targeted me for abuse which inturn makes me like her but not completely
there should be about 288349281.2 sociopaths on earth this is a rough estimate from 1 out of 25 people thing
it depends on what environment the person grew up in and what if any coexisting disorders they have with their ASPD(anti social personality disorder aka sociopathy)
if they were told to cheat and lie and told to manipulate (or even were lied to and cheated and manipulated by authority figures) they will become a lot like the kind you are describing
a lot are socioal predators in some way but they aren't monsters..
the monsters are the psychopaths that run the planet that want to make wars and kill people because there is too many people in their mind
they also create sociopaths a girl is manipulated into incest with her father....https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7hJyrtWSYjo she then grows up and manipulates people in the same way that she was
you need to understand a lot of these sociopaths they are all victims
and what you are doing trying to alert people to how you felt is pretty much what they are doing except (they usually don't care anymore or are insane and aren't fully understanding) or in their own way you get this guy
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0qyCR9tPDgM
he slits a girls throat because he didn't want her to grow up the way he did with abuse
then this one https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ME2wmFunCjU tortures her brother because she was raped and tortured
my mum is a sociopath.. despite how she abused me i kind of felt sorry for her once my mum was mentally tortured by her parents and she was raped and also bullied at school
it's very complicated because some sociopaths use their abuse as a lure to anyone being empathic
not all sociopaths are bad you might have someone get abused then turn into some motivational speaker for alerting people about domestic violence
it's not a linear path of rules to know what they do and so forth
you need degrees in psychics or like my self have family like it or be one to really understand BOTH sides
there is also these
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lp1VuWvJIog
and
teenagers are sociopaths