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How is repetition a dangerous thing?
If you're being asked the same questions repeatedly and you want to give honest answers, then naturally you're going to repeat yourself, because the truth only has one answer.
In my experience, as someone who was questioned repeatedly online for about 4 years, I can tell you that some people only believe what they want to believe. You can repeat the truth over and over and over again and some people will still refuse to accept it.
I've been accused (online only) of being delusional, yet it seems to me that the delusional ones are the ones who keep their blinders on and refuse to accept anything beyond their own preconceived ideas and beliefs. It makes you wonder how people can be so narrow-minded.
It's okay to be skeptical, but if someone is repeating the same things over and over again and you still don't believe them, there has to be a point where you've gotta question your own perception of them.
Not everyone's a liar all the time.
Online is a different world that just lends itself to skepticism in general.
I think in IRL one should pay attention to action vs. words.
Thrill, I think you're mostly consistent and others want to break you.
Personally I hate being accused of lying when I'm telling the truth. And if a person continues to accuse me of lying, they become 'dead to me' - I don't see, hear or respond to them - why waste time on idiots.
(Edit: there's one on this forum that wouldn't stop and has now burnt all bridges but keeps reaching out - LOL.)
by RichardParkerPersonally I hate being accused of lying when I'm telling the truth.
I am exactly the same, because it makes me feel like I'm being disrespected and disregarded.
Mind you, I'm not saying I'm honest all the time. I do lie for a lot of different reasons, but I don't lie about who I am (at least not online anyway). The internet is one place where I can actually be myself.
A lot of people don't like the real me because I'm selfish, self-absorbed, uncaring, aggressive, rude and abrasive, or they simply can't relate to me. I think that's why it's hard for people to accept that this is who I really am.