Sociopath Community

by Edvard

You spent like years on a moderated forum though. XD

Yes, but it was moderated long before I even joined, as most forums are. It's hard to find a forum that doesn't have a set of rules being enforced, which is why I'm strongly against this forum heading in any direction where moderation will become inevitable.

I usually get kicked or banned off moderated forums because I have a habit of breaking the rules, sometimes without even thinking. If this forum becomes a moderated one, then you can bet your ass I'll get kicked or banned from this one too eventually and I don't want that to happen.

I like my freedom here. I like knowing that I can post what I want, where I want and say whatever the hell I want to whoever I want to say it to. Here, I can be myself. On moderated forums I'm forced to watch what I say in case it offends some pathetic bleeding heart.

by emilynghiem

* Personal counseling / advice or relationship issues (where people post long stories)

 It's a fucking sociopath forum. Why the hell would this place need a counseling section?

There are psychopath victim forums where they don't even allow psychopaths to post on them. We shouldn't have to accommodate victims just so you can fucking counsel them.

Why do you stay on this forum, emily, when other forums have everything you want already?

There are plenty of forums that have sections already established. Why aren't you there instead of staying here?

1. Because people were coming here and posting long stories how they were victimized by a spouse or partner who could be sociopathic. And seeking advice how this person thinks, what triggers them or what allows them to work with others.

One woman who posted had a young child with such a father who was legally fighting for custody in order to exert control.

If all the members here were more experienced working in teams, empaths with sociopaths, or former victims with former builies, Don't you think people coming here would get more consistent advice? 

2. Also some people with social disorders WERE coming here and using the free speech and puppets/trolls for their therapy. I made accounts just to talk to each one I tried to connect with as an INDIVIDUAL person where THEY were coming from, to see if it had more effect in making a real connection. Wilful also did this for me, when he was first trying to demonstrate the backwards sarcastic humor I didn't get at first.  

So it is a form of interaction, to develop TRUST, and be okay sharing with other people.

This whole forum is a form of therapy. it just takes different formats for each person.

Your way of doing things, TK is not for everyone. Luna is inclusive enough to try to accommodate diverse needs. So these do NOT need to be in conflict just because they are different! Thanks TK. I'm sure all your concerns will be addressed and resolved.

Well TK if it makes you feel better, I would personally go to bat for you, and ask Luna to waive rules for senior members like you who helped troubleshoot the system to remain as unregulated as possible without getting into legal liability.

I think that is a fair trade off to let you keep the same freedoms you had before, if it is just you or a few older members who don't have ability to follow rules.

And just put your name on a list of senior members who did not agree to the user terms. So other people know not to assume you will follow any rules if you don't agree to them.

What will help you, too, is getting to the root of what makes you "act out" and deliberately not follow rules. That situation can be minimalized to reduce risk of it happening. Or else see it coming so it can be diverted.

Even people who have asthma or anxiety attacks learn to watch the signs, and eventually reduce the incidents.

TK I know you don't believe me or understand all this conflict resolution garbage.

But if you finished going through all the trouble to resolve these issues with me, you would also solve related problems or fears about not following rules or getting banned. you would know when to ask for help to resolve conflicts before you broke any rules. 

So this would not be an issue anymore. you would feel free to enjoy the forum, and wouldn't worry about rules you wouldn't break anyway. I think you'd be even happier.

Yours truly,

Emily

Yes, I think I'm done here. And will refer friends in the future.

I will probably ask to work with Vets I've met on the 4 main sites where I've made friends.

The project Luna is designing a web community for involves saving historic housing for Vets.

So it will likely take contacts from the different online communities to organize nationally.

This site is one of them, where Virus may be a Veteran, Daddy and Cain. There are plenty of Veterans with either social, personality or other mental health disorders. I'm asking help to build a housing campus for training Vets to manage rental property as their income.

So this could work for even disabled Vets who can only work part time or not at all. They can still make enough money to support themselves if we trained them to work in teams.

sorry this is all on Toaster's thread. I thought it was on the thread I set up for this. sorry

by emilynghiem

What will help you, too, is getting to the root of what makes you "act out" and deliberately not follow rules. That situation can be minimalized to reduce risk of it happening. Or else see it coming so it can be diverted.

 You really don't get it, do you.

I don't want to reduce the risk of it happening. I don't like rules. Why else do you think I break them?

But if you finished going through all the trouble to resolve these issues with me, you would also solve related problems or fears about not following rules or getting banned. you would know when to ask for help to resolve conflicts before you broke any rules.

You're a dense bitch, I swear. Why the fuck would I want to resolve any issues with you. You cause more issues than you resolve.

I don't fear breaking the rules, lol. Why would I when I break them on purpose.

And I sure as shit don't fear getting banned from moderated forums. Just because I don't want to get banned from a forum doesn't mean I fear it happening. If it happens, it happens. Then so be it.