We still get along fine. I'm just pointing out that you sound like an egotistical twat who doesn't want to consider anyone else's opinion as valid. It's not personal.
The reason I said "just answer the question" is because I had to ask it three times and you evaded each time, so I got sick of that shit and said answer the question. I wanted to hear your side of the story, and you never bothered to tell me. So don't complain now that I've only been told one side, I fucking asked you directly multiple times.
I'm also against spammers and hackers, but I also don't want to worry about hurting someone's feelings when they have power. Like I told you, I don't know you, therefore I don't trust you, and seeing the way you talked about "power" and had a condescending "just trust me everything will be okay" tone made me trust you less.
I don't trust people who want authority. You seem to want it. I don't know why. Do what you want but don't expect strangers to give you the benefit of the doubt, and don't try to "get along" with me when I just want answers to questions and honest discussion.
If moderation is solely to stop hackers, whatever. What will you do if someone posts your personal information?