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by 13circe

When people cheat, it is their own insecurities and weakness.

 That's bullshit. What makes your partner weak or insecure for fucking someone else?

It's all just lust in the end. You're not the only person in the world your partner is sexually attracted to.

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 Deception is the only felony.

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 @blabla - "it is entirely possible to have a strong opinion about something that you haven't personally experienced." 

Yes it is - LOL- this is called empathy. (Thx for the help, friend!) I was scratching my head wondering why people thought I was cheated on just cuz I think it's wrong. Then bam I remembered where I am. And I don't mean that as an insult. Some people process differently - gotta remember that. 

Hey Shadow, you said I was being judgemental. Ya, you're right. I can be a prick. Skanks (bad sexist term, I know) are a trigger for me cuz I've tended to attract them over the years and they don't fucking go away. LOL! 

yes, I am a moralist - and that's the nicest thing I've been called all fucking week. I'm also a prick - neat eh?

 

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 I am attracted to lots of people. I don't eff em.

 

I am not talking sex, I am talking cheating.

 

I am not a boring vanilla loser. Neither was G. Therefore he satisfied me.

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Oh snap kanye..drop some knowledge on us hos and bitches 

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So you're a boring strawberry loser?

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 Thanks for a good OP and comment.

Yes, it was shown that the more partners a man has in the past, the greater chances of cervical cancer in their future partners. How much of that is because the men can carry germs from previous partners?

I find people are most comfortable yoked with partners of equal attractiveness and also equal pasts.

So it works out anyway.

It's like a car, keeping the mileage low in case you decide to trade in for a better model. Both partners are better taking care of each other, not abusing the relationship to create more baggage/karma into their next relations.

Sorry for the long msg. good topic Thanks Circe!

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 I think both attractions and cheating are based on karma.

There are spiritual reasons for attractions that people act on romantically.

I even met ppl who remembered their connections from other lives, repeating in this one.

I had enough attractions like that to try to learn the difference. And learn my lesson before anyone else got hurt.

some of that karma was downright lethal, not something I could resist without outside intervention.

so it's hard for me to judge people for giving in to impulses, some of them are just that strong

even knowing it is disastrous and damaging. I wish more people understood and made more careful decisions.

Also the issue of judging people for homosexuality involves understanding karma and spirituality.

I hate to see people judged and suffer for things that other people don't understand on the surface. 

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