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 I'm thinking about he might be just testing if she turn her no into a yes. And when she does he's done. Which leads me on to the next, isn't it bad to tell his wife if it's just a game? It can be an innocent play from a man who'd never really cheat on his wife, not necessarily a sociopaths game with sex as an outcome. Telling the wife would be a more sociopathic act, because it's to ruin a family because she didn't get what she wanted from him.

 Then he needs to decide which way it is with his own wife.

And not use AJF for testing her or himself in that regard.

she needs to "man up" and put this back on him.

Tell him if you don't tell your wife yourself

then i/we will. And make him resolve his own mess first.

 And the defensive response makes this even more obvious. Its so telling when someone will delve into their sexual interests but not give in on age range. 

girl!!! who cares?!! you want him gone, just say so and be done with it!

you're allowing him to keep you on a leash, maybe b/c you like it, and if you do, it's ok to! you don't need this or any other thread or community to validate that! you wanna be a bottom, then honey do it! be the best bottom you can be! ;) it can be exciting! and you don't have to feel like a loser, you could be a power bottom!! :)

words of advice - when i'm done, i'm done. they can call, they can text, they can stalk me and show up at my door, it's ok, b/c i don't give a fuck. i'm done. and you know what happens? they are not idiots, they get it. they try to "break" you for a bit, it gets boring, and then they fuck off. the only reason why they do not fuck off is b/c you're prolonging the game, you're sending mixed signals. if he's a predator he can sniff the bs on you. 

if you want to be done, then cut the fucking leash and be done. no one can convince you to participate in something you decided you will not participate in. NO-ONE!! 

now stop wasting your own and everyone's time, either let him have it, or move on with your life! seriously! this is time wasting! life is short, you could die tomorrow, get to living it fully! chop, chop!! ;)

Threatening or anything that could be mistaken as threatening is a horrible idea. "Make him resolve his own mess"? No. Get away from the situation, block all access to communication and don't look back. Encouraging games like this will only burn the person on the demanding end. 

This isn't only for socio relationships but any affair type situation. Nothing good will come of that. 

 But innocent flirting could blow out of proportion.

What if he never wanted more than just have a nice thrilling conversation.

I don't think you should be to fast to judge, that's all.

We don't know i he deserves to have his life as he knows it destroyed.

 This stalker is married too??? I missed that. 

A lot seem to be, eh?

No I seriously missed that. Now I am wondering how AJ got involved in the first place. She doesn't seem the type to go that way. LOL at least from what I can tell based on our long friendship. 

 Clue are you Canadian or just messing with me? ;)