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 Well thanks for the input. And by blocking I meant cell phone, fb and instagram. 

 Richard what do you mean here?

 I have a question, is the sociopath genuinely infactuated with their target or is that for show to boost the targets ego? And if the sociopath really doesn't have an infatuation and just wants conquest, then why spend so much effort? Why not move onto one of the other men/women?

I was pointing out to clueless that a rather rude member on this forum wanted to disrupt the thread (throw flames) and get my attention and yours through insults. I wasn't going to give it to them. I told  Clue to watch this person escalate as attention was denied. This behaviour can be correlated to what these charming men in your lives will do.  

Dear AJFrances.

Do as you please, but be aware of the consequences.

Your life is your own to live.

Others will always try to burden you with their own insecurities, but those you truly need to know, are your own.

This isn't hell, heaven or purgatory.

This is your life.

The highest value you can uphold.

Don't let someone who wishes to dictate their own terms, define your own.

Develop your own conscience and abide by its rules.

You can't go overtly wrong on that advice.

@AJ - Infatuation not quite. They're goal oriented towards targets and yes, it's about conquest and winning. Social connections and rejection/embarrassment or greater challenge could make one target more desired than another. But's it's not love.

"Why not move onto one of the other men/women?" They are! They're playing several people at once. 

Do you think this guy hasn't been getting laid for 4 months - he's just pursuing you? lol

 Ok I know he was targeting others besides me. What iv don't get is why does he keep trying after I say I want nothing to do with him? Like if there are so many others then why backpedaling? I guess just cause it's the conquest?

by AJFrances

 Ok I know he was targeting others besides me. What iv don't get is why does he keep trying after I say I want nothing to do with him? Like if there are so many others then why backpedaling? I guess just cause it's the conquest?

 Because he's enjoying the game as much as you are...

 because the game is fun. This is the hard part

You're like a dog. He kicks you around and you keep coming back for more. You claim to not enjoy his attention, which is clearly a lie, as indicated in the quote above. You know that the more you resist him, the more he fights to get your attention because he's enjoying the game too, you see.

He will give up eventually and then you'll contact him, wanting his attention again. Then if he decides you're still worth his time, you'll start whining all over again. Why?

Because you enjoy being a victim.

 yeah, persistence works on women. the longer they pursue us the more our ego gets the best of us and the harder we fall. never let anyone dictate or manipulate your sense of self. the moment i do i fuck myself over, every time. you don't need him to feel desirable or sexy or whatever. fuck this douche, find somebody worth being interested in. feed your own ego, it's better for you! ;)

 You've fucked him once and he wants more admit  it.